Dating Insights & Advice

Expert matchmaking advice, dating tips, and stories from Matchmaker May.

Thoughtful Asian woman reflecting during a quiet café date conversation, representing intentional dating and emotional clarity in modern relationships.

Dating Coach Gives Sound Advice on Something That Has Not Happened Yet

April 30, 2015

As a dating coach and matchmaker, one thing I often encourage clients to do is slow down before jumping to conclusions or creating unnecessary uncertainty…

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A romantic close-up of a couple sharing a warm, intimate moment in a softly lit café, symbolizing meaningful cross-cultural connection and intentional relationships.

Asian Men Dating White Women

April 23, 2015

Something interesting is happening in modern dating that I’ve been observing more closely over the years. More Asian men are now open to dating white…

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How do I Get a Date?

April 14, 2015

If you’ve been asking yourself, “How do I get a date?” You’re definitely not alone. Many of the successful professionals I speak with are kind,…

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A warm, intimate dinner scene showing a group of Asian professionals enjoying conversation and connection at an elegant restaurant table, reflecting a relaxed group dating atmosphere.

Asian Dating is Group Dating

April 9, 2015

One thing I often tell my friends is that Asian dating can sometimes feel a little like group dating. In many Asian social circles, people…

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Elegant first date between an Asian woman and a professional man at a romantic upscale restaurant, representing intentional dating and meaningful connection.

Asian Dating Tips: How To Behave On Date

April 7, 2015

First impressions matter. Here are a few timeless dating tips I often share with clients navigating Asian dating in Los Angeles and across the United…

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How Do You Greet Your Date

April 2, 2015

Are you a busy professional who needs some help with dating? Many of my clients are incredibly successful in their professional lives. They know how…

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Professional man waiting at an upscale restaurant while an elegantly dressed woman arrives late to their first date in Los Angeles, capturing the importance of punctuality and first impressions in intentional matchmaking.

Dating Services In Los Angeles Gripes

March 31, 2015

One thing I’ve noticed recently is how often people are arriving late to first dates. As a matchmaker, it’s something I pay close attention to…

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Professional couple on a first date at an elegant restaurant, with the woman appearing disengaged while the man speaks, representing common dating turn-offs and first impression mistakes men make during conversations.

Dating Tips for Men: Turn-Offs

March 26, 2015

Small Turnoffs That Make a Big Difference One thing I’ve learned after years of setting up introductions is this: attraction is often shaped by the…

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Yellow Fever: Not A Bad Word

March 19, 2015

A Conversation About Preference, Culture, and Intentional Dating One topic that occasionally comes up in conversations around Asian dating is the phrase “yellow fever.” Over…

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A handsome man smiling warmly during a professional dating photoshoot in a modern living room setting.

How To Look Good In Dating Photos

March 10, 2015

Dating Photos Are Important When I work with clients, one of the first things I often notice is how much their photos influence the quality…

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