Meet Matchmaker May

Connecting hearts through cultural understanding since 2009. Discover the story behind Two Asian Matchmakers.

Founder and certified Asian matchmaker May Bugenhagen smiling in an grey off-the-shoulder sweater, featuring text overlays: '17+ Years Experience' and '5,061 First Dates'.
17+

Years Experience

5,061

First Dates

A Passion for Meaningful Connections

May Bugenhagen founded Two Asian Matchmakers in 2009 after realizing how important cultural values are in finding the right partner. As an Asian American and certified matchmaker, May understood the unique challenges professionals face in today's dating world.

She set out to create a service that is personal, discreet, and effective; one that honors the nuances of Asian culture while embracing the diversity of modern relationships.

“I believe love is deeply shaped by culture and shared values, finding someone who 'gets' you is everything.”

— May Bugenhagen, Founder
Certified Matchmaker • Global Love Institute
Member • Matchmakers Alliance
Best Asian Matchmaker • 2025
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“Ron, a 40-year-old client, struggled with dating until May guided him to build confidence and clarity. After a few hand-picked matches, Ron met someone special. Today, they're happily married with a child.”

A success story May cherishes

Our Values

The principles that guide everything we do

Cultural Understanding

We honor the importance of culture and family values in relationships.

Integrity & Discretion

Your privacy is our priority; all introductions are highly confidential.

Personalized Attention

We invest in every client's journey to love.

Ready to Find the Love of Your Life?

Don't let another year slip away. Take the first step toward a fulfilling relationship with someone who truly understands you.

Welcome to Two Asian Matchmakers. May Bugenhagen is a certified boutique Asian matchmaker. She helps high-caliber singles find real love.

As a leading matchmaker, May understands your values. Additionally, she knows the dating challenges professionals face today. Founded in 2009, our firm brings over 17 years of experience. Therefore, we help single men and women find strong relationships.

Our work combines cultural care, honesty, and focus. First, every client gets personal guidance from our team. Furthermore, we always value your privacy and long-term goals.

Whether you want private matching or dating strategy, our process fits your needs. So, you can view our Asian matchmaking services to see how we work with clients.

May holds a certification from the Matchmaking Institute. In addition, she is part of the Global Love Institute network. As a result, this ensures top ethics and care for you.

We work with busy single professionals. Every candidate completes a simple screening process before any real meeting takes place.

Our top clients get support on their dating journey. For example, we offer post-date feedback, style tips, and simple dating advice to help you succeed.

Are you a single Asian woman seeking a life partner? You can join our private candidate group. Because of this, registration is safe, fast, and free of charge.

Our team guides you through every step. First, we help you show your best self. Next, we connect you with singles who share your core values.

Finding a life partner takes a thoughtful plan. Therefore, choosing a trusted boutique Asian matchmaker gives you clear guidance and confidence.

Finally, we make dating easy, discreet, and fun for all our clients.

Boutique Asian Matchmaker May Bugenhagen founder of Two Asian Matchmakers
Certified boutique Asian matchmaker offering personalized dating coaching