Frequently Asked Questions

Everything you need to know about working with Two Asian Matchmakers. Don't see your question? Call us at (310) 867-0851 or send us a message

For Men

Who is your ideal client?

We work with intelligent, kind, open-minded, successful men aged 35–65 who are financially stable and genuinely ready to find a committed relationship. We specialize in introductions among health-conscious, active professionals who value fitness and a vibrant lifestyle.

What is the dating process for men?

It starts with a complimentary 45-minute discovery call — call us at (310) 867-0851. We’ll learn about your experiences, who you’re seeking, and what matters most to you in a lasting relationship.

Once you sign up, you’ll get a session with our in-house photographer. As soon as your photos are ready (5–7 business days), we build your profile and begin hand-selecting women from our community who fit your preferences.

When there’s a mutual match, we arrange everything — scheduling, reservations, and communication. After each date, we gather feedback from both sides to fine-tune future introductions.

How much do you charge?

The initial discovery call is free. Memberships range from $15,500 to $50,500+, depending on how long you want to work with us and how selective you are. Contracts are typically 6 months with 2 months of hold time, and can be paused as needed.

We offer two membership types:
• Domestic — searches within your area and across the U.S.
• International — includes the U.S. plus recruiting matches in Asia.

Call us at (310) 867-0851 to discuss which package fits your needs.

How does matchmaking differ from online dating?

With a matchmaker, you’re guaranteed dates with personally screened, hand-selected matches. You receive photos and a bio before each meeting. We advocate for you on a personal level, coordinate all logistics — scheduling, reservations, communication — so there are no awkward phone calls or miscommunication.

What kinds of clients do you work best with?

We’re most successful with accomplished, open-minded men across a spectrum of professions — entrepreneurs, executives, architects, consultants, creatives, and more. You’re a great fit if you:

• Are serious about finding a committed relationship
• Are too busy for online dating or find it frustrating
• Want an advocate who introduces you to vetted, exceptional women
• Need help getting back into dating after a marriage or long-term relationship
• Are interested in dating Asian women but unsure about cultural nuances
• Value privacy and discretion in your search

Where do you find the women in your network?

Our matchmaker May has personally built a network of 7,200+ exceptional women through professional connections, social circles, charity events, art gallery openings, referrals from other matchmakers, and social media. We actively recruit new members and update our network quarterly to ensure it remains current and high-quality. Beyond our own network, May collaborates with over 300 matchmakers nationwide and 50+ internationally through professional relationships she has cultivated since 2009. We take a limited number of clients who align with our network’s preferences, and if we’re not the right fit, we’ll gladly provide a referral.

What are the women like? Do you have women across the U.S.?

Yes — we have attractive Asian women across the entire United States. The women in our network have diverse goals, from building a power couple to scaling back their career as they transition into marriage or family. Most importantly, every match is built around shared values, lifestyle, and long-term compatibility.

I want to meet women in Asia. How does that work?

We believe geography shouldn’t be a limiting factor. Our International membership includes recruiting in Asia — we work with matchmakers in Thailand, Korea, Singapore, China, Hong Kong, Philippines, Japan, and Vietnam.

Here’s the typical flow: you start with a video call, keep in touch for a few weeks, and when you’re both ready, arrange an in-person meeting — either she visits you or you travel to her country. You choose the countries you’re interested in, and we connect with our local matchmaker partners to search.

Many women in our network are open to relocating for the right partner. Travel and dating can be a great combination, creating excitement that springboards a new relationship to the next level.

Does my location matter? What if I don't live near a major city?

Opening your search nationwide dramatically increases your options — the right woman could be one introduction away in another city. We work across Los Angeles, New York, San Francisco, Chicago, Seattle, Dallas, and more.

If you live within 30 minutes of a major city, we can typically be successful. If you’re in a more remote area, it can be tougher — women in our network generally aren’t looking to relocate somewhere very remote, and long-distance driving for dates becomes tiring. However, if you’re open to relocating to your match’s city, we can absolutely work together.

If you only want to date Asian women near you and live somewhere with a small Asian population, we may suggest broadening your search to include a second ethnicity or expanding your geographic radius.

For Women

What does it mean to join the network?

Being in our network means world-class matchmakers are working on your behalf to find the perfect partner, completely free of charge. We’re always seeking amazing women aged 25–55. To get started: fill out a complete profile, upload recent photos (headshot, body shot, and a “first date” look, no hats or sunglasses), and we’ll search for compatible matches. If there’s a strong candidate, we’ll reach out, often with a 30-minute video call to get to know you better.

What happens after I join?

When you’re a great match for one of our male clients, we’ll send you his profile (bio and photos) via email or phone. If you’re interested and he is too, we arrange the entire date — time, location, reservations, everything.

After the date, we gather feedback from both sides. If you both want to continue, we share contact details. If not, we use the feedback to refine future matches.

If there are no current matches, we won’t contact you unnecessarily — but the more open-minded you are, the more often you’ll hear from us.

Will you tell me about the men I'll be meeting?

Absolutely. You receive a bio and photos of each man before you meet, and the decision is always yours. We work with smart, accomplished men who are ready for a committed relationship. We vet them for you and keep you in control every step of the way.

What if I want to be a paying client?

May works exclusively with a select few women each year who want to take the driver’s seat in their search. Call us at (310) 867-0851 to inquire about women’s matchmaking packages.

General

How does Two Asian Matchmakers differ from other matchmaking companies?

• Personalized approach tailored to your specific goals and lifestyle
• Extremely high standards — we work tirelessly to fill our network with outstanding women
• Diverse Asian women with a range of goals, from power couples to family-focused partnerships
• Matches based on shared values, goals, and long-term compatibility — not just appearance
• A dedicated advocate in your corner working to find your ideal partner
• A proven 71% success rate since 2009

What makes May qualified as a matchmaker?

May has been making personal introductions since 2009 and has matched hundreds of couples. She’s been featured in Huffington Post, Cosmopolitan, Google Trends Today, and as a panelist at Matchmaker Alliance Conferences. As an Asian woman who spent 11 years in corporate America, she understands the cultural nuances and challenges of modern dating firsthand.

Is Two Asian Matchmakers Asian-owned?

Yes. Because your matchmaker is Asian, May understands all the different cultural idiosyncrasies. Our standards are set very high, and with Asian work ethic, you know you’ll get the best service.

I'm a parent wanting to find my son or daughter someone. Can you help?

We’ve consulted with many parents over the years. We can help — as long as your son or daughter is genuinely excited about the prospect. Unless they’re bought into the idea, it won’t be successful. If they’re on board, we’d love to meet them!

I'm shy or getting back into dating. Can you help?

Absolutely. We have a high success rate when we combine strategy sessions with our matchmaking packages. Sometimes men don’t want to admit they need help, but when we pair dates with one-on-one coaching before and after, it’s a winning combination. We can get you many first dates — and our strategy sessions help you land the second and third.

General

How does Two Asian Matchmakers differ from other matchmaking companies?

• Personalized approach tailored to your specific goals and lifestyle
• Extremely high standards — we work tirelessly to fill our network with outstanding women
• Diverse Asian women with a range of goals, from power couples to family-focused partnerships
• Matches based on shared values, goals, and long-term compatibility — not just appearance
• A dedicated advocate in your corner working to find your ideal partner
• A proven 71% success rate since 2009

What makes May qualified as a matchmaker?

May has been making personal introductions since 2009 and has matched hundreds of couples. She’s been featured in Huffington Post, Cosmopolitan, Google Trends Today, and as a panelist at Matchmaker Alliance Conferences. As an Asian woman who spent 11 years in corporate America, she understands the cultural nuances and challenges of modern dating firsthand.

Is Two Asian Matchmakers Asian-owned?

Yes. Because your matchmaker is Asian, May understands all the different cultural idiosyncrasies. Our standards are set very high, and with Asian work ethic, you know you’ll get the best service.

I'm a parent wanting to find my son or daughter someone. Can you help?

We’ve consulted with many parents over the years. We can help — as long as your son or daughter is genuinely excited about the prospect. Unless they’re bought into the idea, it won’t be successful. If they’re on board, we’d love to meet them!

I'm shy or getting back into dating. Can you help?

Absolutely. We have a high success rate when we combine strategy sessions with our matchmaking packages. Sometimes men don’t want to admit they need help, but when we pair dates with one-on-one coaching before and after, it’s a winning combination. We can get you many first dates — and our strategy sessions help you land the second and third.

Still Have Questions?

We'd love to hear from you. The first step is always a free, no-pressure conversation.