Dating Insights & Advice

Expert matchmaking advice, dating tips, and stories from Matchmaker May.

Handsome man leaning on a coffee table learning how to look good in dating photos during a professional photoshoot

How To Look Good In Dating Photos

March 10, 2015

Dating Photos Are Important When I work with clients, one of the first things I often notice is how much their photos influence the quality…

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Asian professional man contemplating texting etiquette while dating in LA at a luxury rooftop restaurant overlooking the Los Angeles skyline

Dating In LA: Is Texting Harmful?

November 2, 2011

When dating in LA, communication shapes almost everything. It influences how attraction builds, how trust develops, and whether two people ever make it from a…

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Jewish Men and Asian Women Dating: Is This a New Trend?

May 27, 2011

A Growing Pattern I’ve Noticed in Matchmaking Over the years, I’ve noticed a growing number of Jewish men interested in dating Asian women through my…

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Elegant Asian woman enjoying a romantic candlelit dinner date with a gentleman, illustrating why men date Asian women for intentional relationships.

Why Men Choose To Date Asian Women?

May 13, 2011

One question I’ve been asked for years at events, networking mixers, private consultations, and casual dinners is this: “Why men date Asian women in such…

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Gentleman in a grey suit closing the car door to end a date with an Asian woman outside a restaurant

How to End a Date with an Asian Woman Successfully?

March 9, 2011

You have just shared an incredible evening with an exceptional woman. The conversation flowed effortlessly over dinner, the chemistry was present, and now you have…

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First Date with an Asian Woman: 5 Mistakes to Avoid

March 8, 2011

One of the questions I hear most often from men is, “How do I keep her interested after the first date?” Preparing for a first…

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Asian woman in a cream dress smiling on a date as a gentleman opens the door, demonstrating thoughtful first date etiquette asian women appreciate.

Dating Asian Women, First Date Etiquette

February 15, 2011

When you’re sitting across from someone on a first date, your actions often communicate more than your words. One thing I’ve noticed over the years…

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A well-dressed couple on an elegant dinner date showcasing successful Los Angeles Asian men dating professional women.

Los Angeles Asian Men Dating

December 27, 2010

One common question I hear is who Los Angeles Asian men dating local singles typically choose to meet. Historically, many Asian men dated within their…

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Asian Dating Advice

December 23, 2010

Asian Dating Advice from Asian Matchmakers  Over the years, I’ve received many questions from clients about dating, relationships, and building meaningful connections across cultures. As…

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LA Asian matchmaker May Bugenhagen seated at her desk in a high-rise office with the Los Angeles skyline in the background.

Interview with a Los Angeles Asian Matchmaker

December 23, 2010

Spotlight on May Bugenhagen, Founder of Two Asian Matchmakers After more than 17 years as a matchmaker, I’ve had the privilege of helping thousands of…

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