Dating Insights & Advice

Expert matchmaking advice, dating tips, and stories from Matchmaker May.

A handsome man smiling warmly during a professional dating photoshoot in a modern living room setting.

How To Look Good In Dating Photos

March 10, 2015

Dating Photos Are Important When I work with clients, one of the first things I often notice is how much their photos influence the quality…

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Professional man sitting alone at an upscale rooftop restaurant in Los Angeles while looking thoughtfully at his phone, representing modern dating, texting culture, and emotional disconnect in LA relationships.

Dating In LA: Is Texting Harmful?

November 2, 2011

When dating in Los Angeles, communication shapes almost everything. It influences how attraction builds, how trust develops, and whether two people ever make it from…

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Jewish Men and Asian Women Dating: Is This a New Trend?

May 27, 2011

A Growing Pattern I’ve Noticed in Matchmaking Over the years, I’ve noticed a growing number of Jewish men interested in dating Asian women through my…

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Elegant Asian woman enjoying a romantic dinner date with a Western professional man in a sophisticated restaurant setting, representing intentional cross-cultural relationships and modern matchmaking.

Why Men Choose To Date Asian Women

May 13, 2011

One question I’ve been asked for years, at events, networking mixers, private consultations, and even casual dinners, is this: “Why are so many men interested…

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A man in a grey suit smiles as he closes a dark sedan's passenger door for a woman inside, who is smiling and waving. They are outside the restaurant "The Bistro" at dusk.

How to End a Date with an Asian Woman Successfully

March 9, 2011

You have just shared an incredible evening with an exceptional woman. The conversation flowed effortlessly over dinner, the chemistry was present, and now you have…

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First Date with an Asian Woman: 5 Mistakes to Avoid

March 8, 2011

One of the questions I hear most often from men is, “How do I keep her interested after the first date?” The truth is, creating…

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Asian woman smiling during an elegant first date as a gentleman opens the restaurant door, representing thoughtful first date etiquette and intentional dating.

Dating Asian Women, First Date Etiquette

February 15, 2011

When you’re sitting across from someone on a first date, your actions often communicate more than your words. One thing I’ve noticed over the years…

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Successful Asian man and Asian woman on a curated dinner date in Los Angeles, reflecting intentional dating, cultural connection, and a serious relationship-focused matchmaking experience.

Los Angeles Asian Men Dating

December 27, 2010

One question I’m often asked is who Los Angeles Asian men typically date. Historically, many Asian men have dated within their own cultural background, while…

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Asian Dating Advice

December 23, 2010

Asian Dating Advice from Asian Matchmakers  Over the years, I’ve received many questions from clients about dating, relationships, and building meaningful connections across cultures. As…

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Los Angeles Asian matchmaker May Bugenhagen, founder of Two Asian Matchmakers, sharing insights on modern dating and meaningful relationships.

Interview with a Los Angeles Asian Matchmaker

December 23, 2010

Spotlight on May Bugenhagen, Founder of Two Asian Matchmakers After more than 17 years as a matchmaker, I’ve had the privilege of helping thousands of…

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