Dating Insights & Advice

Expert matchmaking advice, dating tips, and stories from Matchmaker May.

Japanese woman at a café smiling while texting after a date, illustrating texting etiquette and modern dating communication

Texting Etiquette & Dating Japanese Women

November 2, 2016

Dating Japanese Women Tips One of the most common questions I receive after a first date is simple:“What should I text and when?” Texting has…

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Asian woman sitting alone in a softly lit café at night, looking thoughtful after a date, with city lights visible through the window.

He Hasn’t Asked Me Out Again Yet

October 31, 2016

Santa Monica Asian Matchmaker You had a lovely first date. Perhaps it was an evening at Third Street Promenade in Santa Monica. You walked past…

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Picky Dater? Just Go For Coffee

October 28, 2016

One of the most common patterns I see, especially among thoughtful, intentional clients, is this: You are selective about who you want to build a…

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Chinese matchmaker providing image consulting by helping a client choose clothing in a modern boutique setting

Is It Time For A Makeover?

October 25, 2016

Chinese Matchmaker Can Provide Image Consulting One of the advantages of working with a Chinese matchmaker is that guidance extends beyond introductions. It often includes…

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Asian woman sitting alone at an elegant restaurant table, reflecting thoughtfully about her relationship and future

Dating The Wrong One

October 21, 2016

“You won’t find the right one until you let go of the wrong one.” This is a simple quote, but in my experience as a…

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Japanese Matchmaker Seeking American Men

October 21, 2016

Japanese matchmaker and Chinese matchmaker affiliates From time to time, I work closely with trusted matchmaker partners overseas, including in Japan and Hong Kong. Through…

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Men Are Undesirable If They Do This

October 19, 2016

Best LA Matchmaker Give Sound Advice Hello there. The Best LA Matchmaker May want to give the men out there some great advice. What are…

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Why Do Men Do This

October 17, 2016

Let’s talk about two things today. Too touchy feely on a date and you being too quiet on a date. Why do American men act…

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Posting Proper Dating Photos

October 10, 2016

How do you show your true self in dating photos? You must post more than one head shot. You should post some fun photos that…

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Reading Men’s Online Profiles

October 9, 2016

Ladies, when you are reading men’s online dating profiles, just get a feel for who they are. Don’t dissect every single thing they are saying.…

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