Dating Insights & Advice

Expert matchmaking advice, dating tips, and stories from Matchmaker May.

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Seeking Women Interested in Our Services

January 6, 2020

At Two Asian Matchmakers, we are always looking to meet relationship-minded women who are open to building a meaningful partnership. Joining our network is another…

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What to Expect When You Hire A Matchmaker

January 5, 2020

The Type of Person Who Hires a Matchmaker Not everyone chooses to hire a matchmaker, and that’s perfectly okay. Matchmaking is a thoughtful investment, typically…

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Meet The Beverly Hills Asian Matchmaker

August 2, 2017

Many people ask how I began this work and what led me to build Two Asian Matchmakers. Like many meaningful journeys, it started with a…

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Make Concrete Plans With Her

May 11, 2017

One of the most common frustrations I hear from women is not about uncertainty. They met a man they genuinely like. There is interest on…

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Asian woman and Western man on a candlelit dinner date, smiling and engaged in conversation, representing guided matchmaking for inexperienced daters.

Inexperienced Dater Beware

May 11, 2017

One of the most valuable parts of my work is reviewing date feedback from both sides. Over the years, I’ve noticed a consistent pattern; many…

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Bad Asian Date Ideas

December 29, 2016

When it comes to first dates, every detail matters, especially with someone who shares your cultural values and expectations. Over the years, I’ve noticed certain…

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Asian couple on a first date having a meaningful conversation at a restaurant, showcasing good dating etiquette

Asian Match Making Tips: What Not to Do on a First Date

November 11, 2016

When it comes to meeting someone new, first impressions matter more than most men realize. As a matchmaker, I often see talented, successful men unintentionally…

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She Thinks You Are Cheap If You Do This

November 9, 2016

When I prepare my clients for a date, I often remind them that the smallest details can shape a first impression. One situation I see…

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The Details That Quietly End a Second Date

November 7, 2016

One of the most overlooked aspects of dating is also one of the simplest: how you present yourself. From time to time, I hear from…

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Pasadena Asian Matchmaker: A First Date Mistake to Avoid

November 4, 2016

Why Family Events and Weddings Are the Wrong Setting for a First Date As a matchmaker, I often see well-intentioned clients make decisions that unintentionally…

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