If you’re a man between 50 and 70 who is open to traveling, meeting women in person, and pursuing a real marriage, not endless texting or casual dating, you’re not alone.

Many men reach this stage of life wanting something different:

• • A genuine partner, not a pen pal
• • A woman who values commitment and family
• • A relationship built on intention, not swiping

For men who are open to meeting women overseas, particularly in China, international matchmaking offers a purposeful and refreshing path forward.

Why Consider Meeting a Woman Overseas?

Women in China aged 40 to 60 who are open to relocation are often:

• • Serious about marriage
• • Emotionally mature and family-oriented
• • Open to building a life in the United States
• • Interested in meeting men who are stable, respectful, and intentional

Many of these women have children, life experience, and a clear vision for partnership. They are not looking to “date around”; they are looking for a husband and a future.

Travel With Purpose. Date With Clarity.

Traveling to meet a woman in person allows you to:

• • Build real connections face-to-face
• • Understand cultural values firsthand
• • Avoid misunderstandings common in online dating
• • Decide quickly if there is true compatibility

Men who are willing to travel often find the experience meaningful, eye-opening, and far more aligned with their long-term goals.

Who This Is For

This opportunity is ideal for men who:

• • Are open to international dating and marriage
• • Value loyalty, family, and partnership
• • Are emotionally available and marriage-minded
• • Are willing to travel to meet women in person
• • Prefer a guided, private, and intentional process

You do not need to be flashy, wealthy, or have a “perfect” online profile. You simply need to be sincere, respectful, and serious about building a life with someone.

Work With a Trusted Matchmaker

At Two Asian Matchmakers, we work with American men who are open to meeting women overseas through a personalized, ethical, and highly selective matchmaking process.

We guide you step by step, ensuring clarity, compatibility, and mutual intent, so you’re not navigating international dating alone or blindly.

Take the First Step

If you’re open to exploring a serious relationship with a woman overseas and want professional guidance, we invite you to start a private conversation.

This is not about volume dating.
This is about one meaningful match, done the right way.

We can help with our extensive practical experience with U.S. visa categories, including F-1, J-1, B-1/B-2, and H-1B.

Inquire privately to see if this approach is right for you. Call May at (310) 867-0851 or email us at May@twoasianmatchmakers.com

Let’s Be Honest, Nobody Needs a Matchmaker

You can meet people anywhere: at work, at the gym, through friends, or at your favorite boba shop if you linger long enough.

But my clients don’t hire me because they can’t meet people. They hire me because they’re done wasting time on surface-level dating and want meaningful, culturally compatible relationships.

Why Asian and Asian-American Professionals Choose Matchmaking

After 16 years of helping Asian singles across the U.S., I’ve learned that dating is different when culture, family, and expectations are part of the equation.

Many Asian and Asian-American professionals tell me:

“It’s hard to find someone who gets both my background and my mindset.”

They’re successful, family-oriented, and ambitious, but tired of ghosting, mixed signals, and “situationships.” They want meaningful relationships built on shared values and genuine connection.

That’s where professional Asian matchmaking changes everything.

Matchmaking Isn’t Desperation, It’s Smart Delegation

You already hire experts to save time and get results: your fitness coach, your CPA, your attorney, your mentor. Why not delegate your love life to someone who specializes in high-quality introductions?

At Two Asian Matchmakers, we combine personalized guidance with cultural understanding. We screen for shared values, family expectations, and long-term compatibility, things an app could never match.

Matchmaking is for people who want better results, not for people who “can’t do it on their own.”

Dating With Intention and Cultural Insight

Our clients are busy, emotionally intelligent professionals who are ready for intentional dating, the kind that respects tradition while embracing modern connection.

Whether you’re in Dallas, Los Angeles, San Francisco, or anywhere in the U.S., our mission is simple: help Asian singles meet partners who share their goals, values, and vision for the future.

Join Cocktails & Connections for Dallas Singles Ages 35-55 on Sunday, October 19, 2:30–5 pm at Dua Trattoria in Frisco, the city’s most exciting singles event! Top Asian matchmaker Matchmaker May is hosting a singles mixer in the Dallas area. You don’t want to miss it. We are expecting at least 45 men and women so far.

Want to stand out? Smile, make eye contact, and start a fun conversation like, “What are you drinking?” Keep your phone down and your energy up; confidence is irresistible. Dress sharp, stay relaxed, and let sparks fly.

Women’s tickets and Men’s tickets available:

Eventbrite link:

https://www.eventbrite.com/e/cocktails-and-connections-for-singles-ages-35-55-tickets-1704745261969?aff=oddtdtcreator

In recent years, I’ve been asked more frequently about the dynamic between Jewish men and Asian women. It’s a topic that often comes up in conversations about modern dating, especially as more people begin to explore relationships outside of their immediate cultural circles.

From my experience working with clients over the years, this connection is not about trends or novelty. It is often rooted in something much more meaningful: shared values, mutual respect, and long-term compatibility.

Looking Beyond Assumptions

There are many opinions online about why Jewish men may be drawn to Asian women. Some of these perspectives rely heavily on stereotypes, describing personality traits in overly simplified ways.

In practice, I have found that these assumptions rarely reflect reality.

The women in my network are diverse in personality, background, and life goals. Many are accomplished, independent, and thoughtful in how they approach relationships. Similarly, the men I work with are not simply looking for a “type”; they are looking for alignment.

At the end of the day, lasting relationships are not built on stereotypes. They are built on understanding.

Shared Values Often Matter More Than Background

What I consistently observe is that many Jewish men and Asian women naturally align in areas that are foundational to long-term relationships.

These often include:

• • A strong emphasis on family
• • Respect for tradition and upbringing
• • A value placed on education and personal growth
• • A long-term view of partnership and commitment

These qualities are not exclusive to any one culture, but when two individuals share them, it creates a strong starting point.

In matchmaking, this is what I prioritize, not surface-level traits, but deeper compatibility.

Why Cross-Cultural Dating Continues to Grow

Living in the United States offers a unique opportunity to meet people from a wide range of cultural backgrounds. Many of my clients are open-minded, globally aware, and interested in building relationships that reflect both shared values and new perspectives.

For some, that means exploring connections outside of what is familiar.

This doesn’t mean abandoning one’s own culture. Instead, it reflects a willingness to expand, to learn, and to meet someone who may complement them in unexpected ways.

At the same time, it is equally valid to prefer dating within your own background. The goal is not to follow a trend, but to find the environment where you are most likely to meet the right person.

A More Intentional Approach to Dating

What I often tell my clients is this:

Finding the right partner is not about limiting yourself, but about being intentional.

Whether someone is interested in cross-cultural dating or not, the process should be guided by clarity, knowing what matters most to you, what kind of relationship you want to build, and who aligns with that vision.

This is where matchmaking becomes valuable. Instead of navigating dating on your own, you are introduced to individuals who are already aligned in intention, values, and readiness.

Exploring Meaningful Connections

If you are open to meeting someone outside of your immediate social or cultural circle, this approach can create opportunities you may not encounter on your own.

At Two Asian Matchmakers, I facilitate thoughtful introductions between Jewish men and Asian women who are genuinely interested in building meaningful, long-term relationships. My network includes accomplished, relationship-minded individuals from a wide range of professional and cultural backgrounds.

If you are open to exploring cross-cultural dating, I invite you to take the next step.

For women, joining the network is complimentary and always handled with discretion. You can submit a private profile, and I will reach out when there is a strong, aligned match.

For men who are serious about finding a committed partner, you can schedule a private consultation to explore whether this process is the right fit for you.

What truly matters to them?

While every individual is different, there are consistent patterns I’ve observed over the years. Cultural values, upbringing, and long-term relationship goals tend to shape what women prioritize, especially when they are serious about partnership.

Two qualities, in particular, tend to stand out.

Education

Education is often seen as a reflection of discipline, stability, and long-term thinking. For many Asian women and their families, it represents more than a degree. It signals how a man approaches growth, responsibility, and his future.

If you have a formal education, that will naturally be part of how you present yourself. If you’ve taken a different path, building a business, developing a skill, or becoming self-made, that holds just as much value when communicated clearly.

What matters is not the title itself, but the intention behind it.

On a first date, this doesn’t need to feel like a résumé. Instead, it’s about sharing your journey, how you’ve invested in yourself, what you’ve built, and where you’re going. That clarity creates confidence, not only in you, but in the relationship you’re building.

For many women, being with a man who is thoughtful about his personal and professional growth brings a sense of pride. It reflects alignment with values they’ve been raised to respect.

Family Values

Family plays a central role in many Asian cultures. It often extends beyond the immediate household to include strong, multi-generational connections.

Because of this, women are naturally attentive to how a man views family, his relationships, his sense of responsibility, and the role he sees family playing in his life.

You don’t need a perfect background. What matters is your perspective.

Do you value connection?
Do you show respect for family dynamics?
Do you see partnership as something to build and protect over time?

These qualities signal long-term compatibility.

In many cases, this also translates into how relationships are approached. There is often a stronger emphasis on commitment, working through challenges, and building something lasting together. Loyalty, support, and stability are not just ideals; they are expectations.

A Final Thought

When you’re dating with intention, it’s not about trying to impress; it’s about being understood.

The men who do best in this process are the ones who can clearly express who they are, what they value, and where they’re going. That clarity naturally attracts women who are aligned.

Over the years, I’ve worked with many Asian men who are open to dating outside of their race. Some are interested in meeting Latina women, some are drawn to Caucasian women, and others are simply looking for a kind, intelligent partner who shares their long-term relationship goals.

At the end of the day, dating is still a numbers game, regardless of race. Not every introduction will turn into a relationship, and that’s okay. Some matches naturally develop into something meaningful and long-term, while others simply aren’t the right fit. That’s part of the process.

One thing I always remind my clients is this: just because you don’t see something often doesn’t mean it’s impossible.

Many Asian men grow discouraged because they feel overlooked in modern dating culture or assume non-Asian women are not interested in them. In reality, times are changing. More women today are open-minded, culturally curious, and interested in meeting Asian men than ever before. In fact, I’ve worked with Caucasian women who specifically preferred dating Asian men because they valued qualities like emotional stability, intelligence, ambition, and family orientation.

Confidence matters more than most people realize.

If you’ve experienced rejection before, especially in casual dating environments like bars or apps, try not to internalize it. Rejection is part of dating for everyone. What matters is continuing to put yourself in environments where genuine connection is possible.

This is also one of the reasons many professionals choose to work with a matchmaker. I help screen for compatibility, mutual interest, lifestyle alignment, and relationship intentions before an introduction is ever made. Instead of spending endless hours swiping or approaching people who may not be open to you, the process becomes far more intentional and efficient.

The women in my network come from many different professional backgrounds. Some are nurses, teachers, attorneys, entrepreneurs, creatives, consultants, and executives. Most are educated, relationship-minded, and looking for something meaningful.

What I’ve learned after years of matchmaking is that sometimes the person you truly connect with may not look exactly like the version you imagined in your head, and that’s often a good thing. Real compatibility goes deeper than a checklist.

That said, attraction still matters. I understand that men are visual, which is why I always provide photos and a profile before a date is arranged. There are no blind dates at Two Asian Matchmakers. I want both people to feel comfortable, excited, and genuinely interested before meeting.

The goal is never to force chemistry. The goal is to create the right environment for connection to happen naturally.

If you’re an Asian man interested in dating outside of your race, don’t give up on the process. Stay open-minded. Continue building confidence. Keep putting yourself out there. The right relationship often happens when you stop trying to force outcomes and start focusing on meaningful compatibility instead.

More Asian men are now open to dating white women, and more white women are open to dating Asian men.

And in many ways, this is not new. What’s changed is the level of openness, confidence, and intention behind it.

A shift that’s becoming more natural

In my work as a matchmaker since 2009, I’ve seen the dating landscape evolve significantly. Today, it’s increasingly common for Asian men to express interest in meeting women outside of their cultural background, including Caucasian women.

And I understand why.

The Asian men I work with are often educated, ambitious, emotionally grounded, and family-oriented. Many are at a stage in life where they are no longer interested in casual dating or surface-level connections. They are looking for alignment, someone they can build a life with.

Sometimes that connection is with an Asian woman. Sometimes it’s not.

And I always tell my clients the same thing: compatibility does not have a single cultural definition.

The outdated narrative is fading

For a long time, there were limiting stereotypes around Asian men in dating. But what I consistently see in my practice does not reflect that narrative.

The men I work with are often confident, accomplished, and emotionally available. They are leaders in their fields, entrepreneurs, professionals, and creatives. They bring stability and intentionality into relationships.

Because of that, I am not surprised when they are sought after by women from different backgrounds.

At one point, we even hosted a speed dating event specifically for Asian men and women who were open to interracial dating. It sold out quickly. More importantly, what stood out was the openness in the room. People were less focused on labels and more focused on connection.

That, to me, reflects where dating is heading.

What I am seeing with women

On the other side, I am also seeing more women, particularly white women, becoming genuinely open to dating Asian men.

And not as a novelty or exception, but as a real preference rooted in compatibility, shared values, and emotional maturity.

What used to feel like a “least common pairing” is now becoming part of a broader shift toward more intentional dating. Women are paying closer attention to qualities like stability, respect, emotional consistency, and long-term potential.

In many cases, they are stepping away from dating patterns that feel uncertain or inconsistent, and choosing something more grounded.

Breaking old assumptions

There are still myths that circulate about Asian men in dating. But those assumptions rarely hold up in real conversations or real relationships.

The men I work with are not defined by stereotypes. They are individuals with different personalities, strengths, and relationship goals, just like anyone else.

What matters most is not the category someone belongs to, but how two people align in values, communication, and life direction.

A more open dating landscape

What I find encouraging is that dating today is becoming less rigid.

People are less focused on “what is expected” and more focused on “what actually works for me.”

That shift creates space for more genuine connections across culture, background, and experience.

And in my work, that is ultimately the goal. Not to match based on assumptions, but to introduce people who are genuinely aligned.

If you are open to meeting the right person

Whether you are an Asian man curious about expanding your dating possibilities, or a woman open to meeting someone outside your usual type, the most important step is clarity.

Clarity about what you want. Clarity about who you are. And clarity about the kind of relationship you are ready for.

From there, everything becomes more intentional.

If you feel ready for that kind of approach, I would invite you to take the next step and connect with us.

In many Asian social circles, people naturally move in groups. Friends introduce friends. Someone brings a girlfriend along. Another person invites a coworker or cousin to dinner. In some ways, it creates a softer, more comfortable way to meet someone new because there is less pressure than a traditional one-on-one date.

When I was single, my girlfriends would often try to set me up with someone they thought I should meet. I remember sometimes bringing a friend along with me, not because anything was wrong with the setup, but because it just felt easier and more comfortable.

It felt less intimidating that way. And looking back, I think that’s also part of why group settings can feel so natural in Asian dating culture: friends genuinely want the best for you, and introductions often feel more relaxed and less pressured.

There is actually something very valuable about introductions through friends.

Your friends already know your personality, your lifestyle, your habits, and often the types of people you naturally connect with. Sometimes they notice compatibility you may overlook yourself.

That said, if you want your friends to successfully introduce you to someone, you need to help them understand what matters most to you in a relationship.

For example, you might tell them you prefer tall men. But the important part is understanding why that matters to you.

Maybe height makes you feel more feminine or protected. Maybe you envision having tall children one day. Maybe you simply find yourself naturally attracted to that energy. There is nothing wrong with having preferences, but clarity helps people make stronger introductions on your behalf.

The same applies to lifestyle, education, ambition, finances, family values, or personality traits.

You should also understand your order of priorities.

Is emotional stability more important than appearance?

Is kindness more important than income?

Would you date someone who earns less if he is financially responsible and already owns a home?

These are the kinds of questions that create clarity not only for your friends but for yourself.

One of the biggest mistakes I see in modern dating is that people create long checklists without identifying the few qualities that truly matter most.

I always encourage clients to focus on their top three non-negotiables first.

If someone meets those core values, stay open-minded enough to explore the connection.

Sometimes chemistry grows in unexpected ways.

And if meeting someone one-on-one feels intimidating, there is absolutely nothing wrong with meeting in a group setting first. Group dinners, casual social gatherings, or introductions through mutual friends can make dating feel lighter, more organic, and more enjoyable.

I also think people spend too much time trying to screen others out instead of finding reasons to genuinely meet and connect.

Not every introduction needs to carry enormous pressure.

Sometimes the best relationships begin with simple curiosity, shared conversation, and being open to the experience.

At the end of the day, your friends can become wonderful matchmakers when they truly understand what you value, and when you allow space for connection to unfold naturally.

One topic that occasionally comes up in conversations around Asian dating is the phrase “yellow fever.” Over the years, I’ve noticed that many people feel hesitant about discussing the attraction to Asian women because the term itself often carries a negative assumption.

But in my experience as a matchmaker, attraction is usually much more nuanced than people make it out to be.

People naturally gravitate toward certain qualities, lifestyles, personalities, and cultural dynamics. Some men are drawn to women who share similar family values, communication styles, traditions, or outlooks on relationships. Others simply feel more comfortable and connected within certain cultural environments because of past experiences, upbringing, or compatibility.

That does not automatically make the attraction inappropriate or insincere.

I work with many men who are genuinely relationship-minded and happen to be especially drawn to Asian women. Some have previously dated Asian women. Some lived or worked in Asia. Some value the importance of family, femininity, education, or cultural compatibility. Others simply feel a natural connection and comfort within Asian culture.

At the same time, I also work with Asian women who specifically prefer Western men, Asian men, or men from certain backgrounds because of shared lifestyle preferences, emotional compatibility, or long-term relationship goals.

Preferences exist on all sides.

What matters most is the intention behind the attraction.

There is a very big difference between appreciating someone’s culture, values, and individuality versus reducing someone to a stereotype. Healthy relationships are built on mutual respect, emotional connection, shared values, chemistry, and genuine compatibility, not fantasy.

At Two Asian Matchmakers, my focus has always been intentional introductions between people who are serious about building meaningful relationships.

Many of the men I work with are accomplished professionals who are simply tired of dating apps, casual dating culture, and disconnected experiences. They are looking for something more grounded, personal, and aligned with the kind of relationship they ultimately want to build.

Over the years, I’ve built a large private network of Asian women across the United States and internationally. Every introduction is handled thoughtfully, discreetly, and with long-term compatibility in mind.

And if I believe another matchmaker or service would better serve your goals, I’m always happy to point you in the right direction.

At the end of the day, attraction alone is never enough to sustain a relationship. Shared values, emotional maturity, communication, and genuine partnership matter far more.

That’s the part of dating I care most about.

It influences how attraction builds, how trust develops, and whether two people ever make it from a conversation to an actual relationship. I often tell my clients that while chemistry matters, communication is usually what determines whether a connection gains momentum or quietly fades away.

And in today’s dating culture, one of the biggest communication questions is this:

Should you call… or text?

Modern dating has made texting incredibly convenient. It is fast, low-pressure, and easy to fit into a busy day. For many professionals in LA, balancing demanding careers, travel, meetings, and social obligations, sending a quick text can feel far more efficient than picking up the phone.

But convenience and connection are not always the same thing.

One of the biggest patterns I see in modern dating is that texting often creates the illusion of progress without creating a genuine emotional connection. Two people can exchange messages for days or even weeks and still know very little about each other.

Before communication even begins, your first impression often comes from a dating profile. Taking time to understand what someone is presenting online can help you decide whether there is a genuine connection worth exploring.

That is part of the reason so many singles feel emotionally exhausted by dating today.

Too much texting can create:

•  • mixed signals
•  • unnecessary overthinking
•  • delayed momentum
•  • emotional ambiguity
•  • unrealistic expectations before meeting in person

And in a city like Los Angeles, where people are already busy and distracted, endless texting can quietly replace actual dating.

I understand why many men prefer texting initially. Reaching out by text can feel easier and less intimidating than making a call. Modern communication habits have also conditioned people to rely heavily on messaging for almost everything.

But when someone is genuinely interested in building a meaningful connection, effort still matters.

Many women tell me the same thing:
A thoughtful phone call feels more intentional.

It feels personal.
Confident.
Present.

It communicates interest in a way that a quick text often cannot.

That does not mean texting is bad. Texting absolutely has its place in dating. It helps confirm plans, send quick updates, or let someone know you are running late.

The issue is when texting becomes a substitute for a real connection rather than a support for it.

The strongest relationships are usually built through:

•  • face-to-face interaction
•  • voice and tone
•  • shared experiences
•  • emotional presence
•  • intentional communication

Not through endless message threads.

One of the reasons my clients appreciate matchmaking is that it removes much of the uncertainty and fatigue surrounding modern communication. Instead of spending weeks navigating inconsistent texting patterns or conversations that never lead anywhere, we focus on creating real introductions with mutual interest and clear intention behind them.

Once I introduce two people, the goal is simple:

Move toward an actual date and discover whether genuine chemistry exists in real life.

Transitioning smoothly from messaging to that first meeting requires focusing on real-world etiquette, which we break down in our insights on dating services, Los Angeles, and first date compatibility.

Because ultimately, no amount of texting can replace sitting across from someone, hearing their laughter, feeling their energy, and experiencing how naturally the conversation flows in person.

If you are dating in LA, my advice is simple:

Use texting as a tool, not as the relationship itself.

A message can open the door.
But real connection still happens face-to-face.