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Face-to-Face Dates

May Bugenhagen
Relationship-minded Asian woman candidate ready for face-to-face dates

One of the key differences between working with a professional matchmaker and using online dating apps is simple: you go on real, face-to-face dates.

If you’ve found yourself spending time swiping, messaging, and navigating conversations that never lead anywhere, you’re not alone. Many successful professionals come to me after realizing that while apps offer access, they rarely create meaningful opportunities to meet in person.

My approach is different. I focus on creating real introductions with intention behind each one.

When I present a match to you, it’s not random. I’ve already taken the time to get to know her, understand her relationship goals, and confirm her genuine interest in meeting you. If there’s mutual interest, my team and I handle everything needed to bring that introduction to life.

A real date. Thoughtfully arranged. In person.

Our Process in Four Steps:

  • 1. I get to know you.
  • I take the time to understand your lifestyle, values, and what you’re truly looking for in a partner.
  • 2. You receive hand-selected introductions.
  • Every match is carefully chosen, and each woman has already expressed interest in meeting you.
  • 3. You meet and explore the connection.
  • Spend time together and see whether there is chemistry and compatibility.
  • 4. You focus on the experience.
  • Show up fully, enjoy the conversation, and allow the connection to unfold naturally.

If you’re ready to move beyond apps and experience a more intentional way of meeting someone, I invite you to take the next step.

Schedule a private consultation, and we’ll explore whether this is the right fit for you. 


If you’re open to meeting a relationship-minded, accomplished partner, I invite you to join our private network.

There is no cost to be included, and every introduction is handled with care, discretion, and intention.

Welcome to Two Asian Matchmakers. In modern dating, face-to-face dates remain the single best way to build genuine attraction, trust, and lasting emotional connection.

While online messaging and phone calls help with initial introductions, true chemistry only happens on face-to-face dates where you can observe body language, warmth, and mutual eye contact.

Our boutique Asian matchmaking process prioritizes high-quality face-to-face dates over endless digital messaging. We pre-screen every single candidate so that every in-person meeting is intentional and enjoyable.

Preparing for face-to-face dates requires the right mindset, thoughtful conversation topics, and confident presentation. Matchmaker May provides expert guidance to help single men and women put their best foot forward on every date.

Matchmaker May is professionally certified by the Matchmaking Institute, ensuring high ethical standards, strict client confidentiality, and expert date strategy support for every client.

Couple enjoying face-to-face dates with Asian matchmaking services
Executive client preparing for face-to-face dates

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