Asian Men are educated, intelligent, and family oriented

Asian men are attracted to Latina and Caucasian women. It’s a numbers game in dating, regardless of what race you want to date. We work with a lot of Asian men who want to date non-Asian and sometimes the matches work out and they get married and sometimes, they don’t work out. The important thing for men to remember is that it is tougher to date non-Asian women, but don’t give up. Work on your confidence, work on how to approach women, and just because you don’t see a lot of Asian men with non-Asian women, doesn’t mean you should give up. What’s great about working with a matchmaker is that we will screen this for you.

Asian men who want to date outside of their race can be a little bit more challenging, but times are changing and more and more non-Asian women are very into Asian men. We have some Caucasian women who only want to meet Asian men and that’s great. But, if the non-Asian women at the bar are rejecting you, never fear, don’t take rejection personally. Keep trying and keep your chin up. The women we work with are usually a busy professional, educated, and have careers in all different fields. Some are nurses, teachers, actors, models, attorneys, etc. You let us know who you are seeking and we will do our best to find her for you. Sometimes who you think you need might come in a different package than you think. We know that men are visual so we always provide photos to show you. There are no blind dates at Two Asian Matchmakers. We want both parties to be excited to meet each other. So get out there and ask the ladies out. That’s how you’re going to get dates.

Dating Expert Says You Are Not Ready To Date If….

Dating Expert Do’s.

Dating Expert May Hui says you should take some time off for yourself before you start getting online right away. The singles will always be online, there is no hurry. “As a dating expert, I say don’t get back on the horse too soon,” says dating expert May, “You need to reflect on what you’ve learn from your previous relationship and focus on some things you need for the next one. Take a moment to self-assess.”

Dating expert May Hui says you are not ready to date if you have too much going on. If you are newly single, do you have drama with your ex? How do you deal with that? What other things do you have going on that is preventing you from dating? You that you should take some time off for yourself, sort yourself out, before getting back out there. If you don’t have someone to watch the kids or have a plan when it comes to dating again, then you are not ready. If you and your ex are still screaming at each other on the phone, then you are not ready to date yet. If your kids are still mourning the breakup between you and your ex, then it’s time to have a conversation with them and give it some time before jumping into the dating scene. You can also hire a date coach to get through some of these issues. A dating coach is invaluable with sound advice for you to take the next step in finding the one. You can search for date coach or dating expert online and read about them to find a good one for you. But be careful, not every dating coach knows what they are talking about so see if their philosophy is in line with yours.

Dating Coach Gives Sound Advice on Something That Has Not Happened Yet

As a dating coach, I often tell people to hold off on jumping to conclusions.

Nothing has happened yet. For example, when you are dating and you might be switching jobs, moving to a new city, or going backpacking in Europe for a month, do you need to bring it up on the first date? My answer is NO. If you really are leaving on a one month trip, then you should not be dating. You should plan your trip. If you say you might be moving or switching jobs, all this talk is making you sound unstable. Not mentally unstable. Just uncertain. Men don’t like uncertainty. Already you sound like a lot of drama. Focus on things that has happened, then talk about it. Other dating coaches might have a different opinion. Another dating coach might say lay everything out on the table on the first date or the fifth date. I think if something hasn’t happened yet, there is no point in going over ‘what if’s’ in your head. That is a waste of time and it will make you go nuts.

What are some dating coach No-No’s and things to avoid talking about on the first date or two? Bottom line: Don’t reveal anything that hasn’t happened yet. You don’t need to tell someone about your plans to move if you haven’t even decided to move.

What do you think of this? Has there been a situation where you thought it was a good idea to tell someone something or get their hopes up and then only to find out, it didn’t happen? This is the same concept. No need to bring something up unless it is going to happen. I hope this helps next time you are on your date and you decide what you should bring up and what you shouldn’t.

Asian Men Dating White Women

Why Asian Men Dating White Women is Socially Acceptable

Is it getting more acceptable now for Asian men dating white women? I think so. There has been more and more demand from our Asian male clients to meet beautiful Caucasian women. And why shouldn’t they?  Asian men want to meet them.  The Asian men are educated, ambitious, and family-oriented. We love when Asian men come to us seeking relationships with non-Asian women. Don’t get me wrong, we also love when they want to date Asian women, too. Long gone are the stereotypes of dorky Asian men trying to meet Caucasian women. There are so many things an Asian man can offer a woman, it’s not surprisingly that Asian men are highly sought after. We also had a speed dating once for Asian men dating white women. That was a sold out event. That was fun and such an eye opener for us as matchmakers and for the community to be open-minded in this pairing.

More and more women are dating Asian men now. This used to be a very unique couple but now a days, it is more and more common. Women are finally getting smarter by choosing Asian men as husbands, boyfriends, and fathers of their children. There are some myths we need to stop spreading about Asian men. In this article, it talks about how Asian men are usually portrayed. Granted, there are some Asian men portrayed that way, but the ones we know are strong, masculine, and confident. So, if you’re a woman looking to date an Asian man, look no further. Fill out a profile with us and let’s set you up with a handsome, passionate, and great catch Asian man. We have more and more non-Asian women and Asian women electing to date Asian men than ever so hopefully you will be one of them as well.

“How Do I Get a Date?”

If you are shy, don’t have that many social friends, or don’t get out much, you might be asking yourself, “How Do I Get a Date?” Well, the good news is that if you are asking it, then we have some suggestions. First and foremost, you have to put yourself out there. Online dating is a great place to go to solve your “How Do I Get a Date” problem. Getting out there to networking function or Meetup.com groups where you have things in common with people are great ways to start. You can even have someone put together a professional online dating profile for you if you need help with that. Commit to going to at least one new activity group, a date with a new romantic interest, or networking function a week. This way, you know that once a week, you have a goal of getting out of your comfort zone. Check out our video on what we suggest you do if you don’t have the funds to hire a matchmaker. There are many things you can do to increase your odds of getting out there and finding the one. It won’t be easy but once you force yourself to mingle, drive there, and participate, you’ll actually realize it’s kind of fun. I know there are many times I dread going somewhere but once I’m out, I have a good time.

How can you get dates if you don’t hire a matchmaker? What are some good practices and things to do instead of online dating? Your circle of friends might be a good start. How do you become a likeable person? How does your attitude affect your love life? What makes your friends want to introduce you? After you really try, then you will solve your own problem of “How Do I Get a Date?”

Asian dating tips for those of you who are dating in Los Angeles or in the U.S. How do you behave on the first date can impact if you will get that highly sought after second date.

Asian dating tips are here. Listen up men and women.

When it comes to Asian dating tips, we always advise our couples to be careful revealing too much too soon.  If you are too fussy or picky on a date, that can be a turn off. Cursing on the date is a no no. Racist jokes are not funny. Politics should not be discussed. What else makes you a turn off? There is bonding and sharing, and there is crossing the line. One of our Asian dating tips include: don’t curse. Some Asian women don’t like it if you are dropping the F bomb on a date. It doesn’t show you have class. It is okay to be more conservative on the date and then see how it develops before revealing everything about you. It’s fun to find out the different layers about someone as time goes by. Keeping the dates to about 90 minutes is idea so you leave her wanting more. If there is a really strong connection, a little hand holding or playfulness is preferred, rather than going in for the kiss on the first date. Asian dating is different where she doesn’t want to seem to aggressive or sexually charged so she wants to take things a little slower. Some Asian women might want to say they want to be friends first so it’s okay to take things at a more leisurely, non-aggressive pace.

Are you a busy professional who needs some help with dating?

Busy professionals need some pointers when it comes to dating, too. Busy professionals are great at their work environment. But what about in a date environment? They forget that how they treat people at work is not how they treat their dates.

When it’s time for your date, you should get into date mode. What that means is you should put your phone away. Tuck it in your coat pocket. Turn it off or silent mode it. Busy professionals forget that they need to be cute, fun, and flirty on a date, not all professional. So, should you greet her with a hug, a kiss, or a handshake? All these things are fine. A kiss on the cheek is okay, if you’re a good looking guy. It only works well if you’re confident and you don’t hesitate. A handshake is fine if it’s not a limp one. This is not work mode, so the handshake is not the suggested greeting. A hug is the best way to greet her. A hug and a compliment is even better. A lot of our clients are busy professionals and they want to make a great first impression. Giving someone a hug and a kiss on the cheek shows that you are warm, caring, and not afraid of affection. Women sometimes come off as being cold or frigid when they come from work because they can’t get out of work mode. So, what will help is if women go home and change and freshen up first. The greeting sets the tone for the date. A playful attitude and a smile goes a long way.

Dating Services in Los Angeles Gripes

Dating Services in Los Angeles all have certain recommendations. For some reason, this week, we’ve been having a lot of people show up late on dates, prompting us to make this video. It’s not cheap to sign up for dating services in Los Angeles so it’s a wonder why people do and then blow it on their first impressions on a first date.

We’re going to let you in on a little secret ladies: Men cannot stand women who arrive late to a date. Five minutes max, but when the guy goes out toward where the woman lives and she’s still 15 or 30 minutes late, that is just rude. Ladies, you are not making a grand entrance when you are late. You are being rude. Ladies, men don’t think you were worth the wait when you arrive 15 or more minutes late. They think you don’t have a good sense of time management. Not sure why women complain that there are no great guys in LA and then they blow it when they have a date with a great guy. It is beyond frustrating when matchmakers find a great match for the man and woman and they both seem excited to meet, only to be disappointed when she is late on the date. His fantasy of how great she is quickly diminishes as the minutes tick away and he’s waiting for her to show up. It’s not just dates what we feel this way. When you meet a new friend and he/she is late, you feel the same way. The saying, “5 Minutes Early Is On Time; On Time Is Late; Late Is Unacceptable” is so true. If you want to make a great first impression, be different for a change. Be early for a date. You would be amazed how truly you stand out from the rest of the women out there in the dating pool.

Dating Photos are Important

How do you impress a potential date before you meet them? The answer is with great dating photos. Now, we’re not talking about the old school glamour shots, but we are talking about nice natural light to make you look nice. Dating photos can also be used for your professional profile on other sites.

How do you look good in dating photos? Let May share with you the secrets for looking your best to put your best foot forward when it comes to dating online or through a dating agency. There are certain things you can do and things you should not do. The answer is not bathroom selfies or selfies in the car when you are about to drive somewhere. Selfie sticks are great for you to practice and take photos at different angles. If you must do a selfie, you can use the timer to get a better angle of you and use a selfie stick. Know what angle is your best side. Take some time to figure out what is most flattering for your body shape and features. Learn how to pose.

You have friends so they can take some photos of you. Make sure you ask for some shots of yourself so you can use for dating. Men are visual and there are beautiful women here in LA, so how you can stand out from the rest of the dating photos out there? By getting some professionally done. You can mix them up with some casual ones that you take. If you are doing online dating, don’t hide your body shape by cropping your body out and trying to trick men or women into meeting you. Have some full body shots so people know what you look like. If you think you are overweight, then do something about it. Fix it, not try to trick someone into meeting you with a not realistic photo of you. That is just not right. We have professional photographers on staff who can help you. Our photo session is $300 and it includes a lot of great shots of you and two wardrobe changes. Contact us for more info.

Dating in LA: Is Texting Harmful?

When dating in LA, communication is very important. Whether you’re reaching out to someone for a first date, talking to them during the first date, or asking for a second date, communication is the key to success in finding a partner long-term when dating in LA. You should mix up dating in LA with attending singles events as well.

But first, how do you get to the first date? The big question: Do you call or text when dating in LA?

Seems like nowadays men would rather text than call for a first date. We guess it’s because:

A) They are wimps and afraid of rejection

B) In this century, our lives are so fast-paced and consumed with work, that we’d rather send a quick text than spend 5-10 minutes on the phone

C) They think they are in high school and it’s ‘cool’ to do so

D) all of the above.

Dating in LA: Technology Killing Us?

Technology has made texting much easier than making a phone call, but that doesn’t mean it is the correct thing to do when it comes to dating in LA. Ever since the smart phones came out, we can now text using one finger instead of two. Sure, it’s illegal on the roads, but it should also be illegal in dating. So you’re thinking why waste our breath when all we need to do to get a first date is punch the keys on the phone when dating in Los Angeles?

But guys! Have you considered what women think about getting a text from you, especially if they really like you? Sure, it’s much easier than calling, but wouldn’t you want to impress that girl by showing some effort into trying to communicate with her when dating in Los Angeles? Women are thinking that they want to be pursued. Women want the guy to call so they can feel special when dating in Los Angeles. They don’t want to receive a text, or worse yet, a ‘mass text.’ Women want to know that the guy thought of them and want to take some time out to call them and talk to them when dating in Los Angeles. Guys, aren’t you annoyed when you call a woman and she replies with a text? Well, it’s the same feeling… for the woman to receive a text from you that asks her out, she’s thinking, “Wow, I wished he called.” You know women, they are chatty little things. They like that extra connection. Maybe we should coach all the women to NOT respond to text messages when men ask them out this way. Would this new rule work while dating in Los Angeles? Your thoughts are appreciated on this topic of texting and dating in Los Angeles. Just email us at info@twoasianmatchmakers.com.com

Dating In LA: When Is It OK to Text Her?

When is it okay to text her when dating in LA? Once you establish a relationship (meaning exclusivity) then you can text her for a date. Don’t get me wrong, you can text if you are in a meeting and running late and can’t use your phone. That’s it. But once you get a chance to call her, do so. Don’t you want to stand out from the rest of the guys who are courting women incorrectly? Just a thought =)

At Two Asian Matchmakers, we’ve seen potential dates shatter because men texted the women for a first date. They never got to meet the women because the women were turned off by their texting. Women want the men to grow a pair so if you are hiding behind the smart phone, maybe you don’t deserve to find the woman of your dreams while navigating in this crazy world of dating in LA. So to prevent that from ever happening to you, call the woman instead!