When clients come to us and work with Asian match makers, they need to be realistic. They need to understand that as Asian match makers, are introducing them to the top Asian women who want to meet them. Our clients often times get into a relationship with someone they meet through us. It is usually one of the first 5 women they meet.

We can introduce you to the quality women, but we can’t close the deal for you. It’s up to you to woo them, wine and dine them. If you are not doing your part in texting them, calling them, or communicating with them to set up the next date, they might lose interest.

Remember what you talked about on the date and use that information to ask them out on another date. If you talked about hiking a certain area and she seemed like she was interested in going, then invite her out to that place that you two discussed. It shows that you remember the date and what you talked about. Ask her out with a time and place and make a date. Women want to look forward to something.

Don’t say, “Let’s hang out next Friday” and don’t give her any specifics. That is the quickest way for her to lose interest. She will think you’re lazy and not a good dater. Keep the momentum going. Date one needs to turn into date two. Date two needs to turn into date three if you like her. Show her that you want to be with her and pursue her.

Nothing is more annoying to women than her liking a guy and she thinks he likes her, too, and they are supposed to go out next week….but, she doesn’t know when or where they are going out. He said, “Let’s hang out on Friday,” and she says, “Sure.” But then he doesn’t contact her on Tuesday, Wednesday, or Thursday yet to tell her when and where they are meeting. So, she was first smitten with him and now she is annoyed with him. What can guys do to have better communication with a woman so she is not annoyed with him?

We often get date feedback from our clients. Some inexperienced daters are a diamond in the rough. They just need a little bit more guidance in dating. Just because they’ve read about dating, doesn’t mean they know how to do it. Beware of going through your checklist when out with that beautiful woman in front of you. The conversation won’t sound natural if you’re not comfortable or in the moment. Inexperienced daters are the ones who can be easily molded into great daters. They just need the experience.

If you’re looking for some help in dating, we are here for you. Contact us or fill out a profile. If you’re a woman and a great catch, we can match you up for free if you are who he is seeking. Just fill out this profile.

Asian Date Ideas for Good 1st Impression

Chipotle is great, but for a first Asian date? That place poses a lot of questions that makes it uncomfortable for a first impression. Do you order at the same time, do you get the table first, and what about where to sit so it’s quiet? If you think a fast food place is a good place to take someone on a first Asian date, think again. What other places are making a horrible first impression? And inviting her to your place on the first Asian date? That might make her feel weird. What if he shows you his gun collection? Too many things can go wrong. What if you want to stop seeing her and now she is a stalker. She knows where you live and what if things don’t work out? We know you want to show off your oceanfront condo but there is a time and place for that. And lastly, don’t take her to a bar that you go frequently. It’s awkward if the servers knows your name and the bartender sees you there with many different women. You want to go to a new place so you can both bond together and experience something unique together. Also, if you are too comfortable at the bar, she might think you are an alcoholic and that you drink a lot. There are plenty of other great places to take someone where it won’t be so awkward and uncomfortable for her. Plus, it’ll mean something when you do take her to your frequent hangout down the road.

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Asian Match Making Tips

Asian match making tips by May will help you out. There are some things you do that will ruin a date. You might not be getting a second date. Is it because you like talking about politics? There are so many dinner table topics so choose wisely. Our Asian match making tips today can help. Sometimes, you’re not aware that you’re doing these things. It’s best to always be on your best behavior but sometimes you forget. You are too comfortable on the date. You let your guard down. Sometimes guys brag about themselves. There is a reason why guys do that. If you think that you’re talking too much, you probably are. Keep the ladies talking by asking her questions. If you are dominating the conversation, take a step back and give her the floor. If you’re nervous while on the date and you start rambling on and on and you don’t even know what the sound of her voice sounds like, then you are making a horrible first impression. If you keep doing things like this, then it will for sure drive her away. Take a look at this video and tune in to our Asian match making tips and learn something. Don’t say we didn’t warn you gentlemen. Let the conversation flow naturally so it doesn’t feel forced or fake. She can tell if you are trying to hard. Yes, women are pretty smart.

On a side note, we’re always looking for awesome men and women for our paying clients. It’s free to be part of our database and to go out with a client if you’re a good match. It doesn’t cost you anything to fill this out, meet with us, or get set up. You just have to be a good catch, in good shape, and interesting.  Just fill out this profile and under how did you hear about us, click CUPID ALERT (that’s how we know you want to be considered for a FREE match): CLICK HERE

So you’re getting drinks and appetizers for a date. She orders a nice drink and you order a water. Then she feels awkward and she thinks you’re cheap or trying to save some money. No woman wants to date a cheap guy. That is pretty much a guarantee. Maybe you can order a diet coke or a drink. No woman has ever said, “I want to date a guy who is cheap.” So, men, the advice is to not be cheap. But it’s probably something you grow up with so it’s tough to change something like that but you can try to change. If you go for a drinks date and don’t order a drink, that’s weird, because then she’ll wonder why you’re not ordering a drink and she’s drinking alone. Women don’t normally like to drink alone. Another thing that might bother women is when you order for her, but don’t do that without asking for her opinion. If you order stuff that she doesn’t eat, it’s rude. We had a woman who did this, too. She is a frequent diner at the restaurant and she just orders for her date and her and he just thought she was too familiar with that place and was rude to just order for both of them without consulting him what he likes to eat. So, just be mindful. Ask to share something and get each others’ opinions.

On a side note, we also work with a lot of Christian clients who are seeking other Christians. We also partner up with a great Christian matchmaker in town. We are always looking for other matchmakers to work with so if you know of a great Christian matchmaker, send her our way. It’s free to be part of our database and to go out with a client if you’re a good match. Just fill out this profile and under how did you hear about us, click CUPID ALERT (that’s how we know you want to be considered for a FREE match): CLICK HERE

Men sometimes don't get the second date. Maybe you thought you were smelling good, but you smelled like you're wearing dirty laundry. It's a musky smell, maybe you went to the gym and it's smelly. It's not a smart thing to squeeze in a last minute workout before your date. Believe it or not, sometimes men do this. Maybe it's to get them in the mood for a date? SO, men should shower before the date. Women also need to put themselves together after they run errands. You can't go on a date looking sloppy. These are true stories. Don't ask to move up the time of the date and then show up sloppy or messy. Don't wear clothes twice. Wash it after every wear. You might think it smells okay but it does not. This might sound like a simple tip, but you'd be surprised how many people don't smell their best on a date. Sorry if we've offended anyone but we only mention this because this happened to us this week where a woman didn't want to see him again because he smelled dirty. This also goes for women who don't wash their hair for two or three days. The guys can smell the oily hair on you and it might turn them off to you. They won't say it to you because how do you bring this up? But he will know hygiene is not that important to you.

Attention all singles: As we work with Asians who are Catholic, we take on the role of an Asian Catholic matchmaker so we are always seeking singles who are Catholic. If you know someone who's Catholic and single, please invite them to join our free database by clicking here: make sure to mention CUPID ALERT (that's how we know you want to be considered for a FREE match): https://twoasianmatchmakers.com/online-profile/

Pasadena Asian Matchmaker Warning

May Hui, a Pasadena Asian Matchmaker, cautions singles. "There are some places that are not a good first date idea. Some horrible first date ideas would be you inviting her to be your date for a family reunion, a wedding, or for a holiday family gathering," explains May. You might want to show her off. You might want to see how he interacts with kids to see if he'd be a good father to your kids. This is a true story. We had a Pasadena client invite her to his uncle's wedding. As a Pasadena Asian matchmaker, we talk to a lot of Pasadena clients. That is not a good idea at all. It is not the time to put her in that situation and she should also say no. It doesn't matter that you two have talked on the phone and you think you were hitting it off. It is not a good idea. It's awkward and uncomfortable for everyone involved. At a wedding, they might talk about love and forever and here you guys are, dating for a couple of weeks or on a first date. It's like forced interaction for you to get along with his family members or cousins. And you might not even be together the next time they have a family function.  You're being introduced to all these people and you can't keep their names straight. People are going to ask you how long you've been dating, where did you meet, or worse, when are you guys getting married!!!?? Watch our video for more insight and you will see. Ladies, tired of horrible first dates, then join our database and let's set you up for free if it's a good match. We are also welcoming women to be part of our database. Join us and be a member and see if we can help you find the one. Just fill out this profile and we'll be in touch: https://twoasianmatchmakers.com/online-profile/

Santa Monica Asian Matchmaker

So, you went out on a first date at 3rd Street Promenade. You liked him and he liked you. You took a nice stroll along the retail stores on a balmy night. “There are great places to go in Santa Monica if you don’t mind the crowds, ” says May Hui, Santa Monica Asian Matchmaker. There are a lot of great Asian food places down there too. But what happens after the great date and you don’t hear from him again? You texted him after the date to thank him. He replied back and led you believe you will go out again. You have not heard from him. It’s Wednesday and he said you were to go out on Saturday. He’s not made any concrete plans. He just said a day, but with no time or place. Well, if he is busy at work, he will wait until Friday to call you because he is not good at multi-tasking. You shouldn’t be too upset if it takes him longer than usual to set up the second date. Guys should really just tell her where they are going and have a time and place in mind. And you can always follow up with her the night before to finalize it or confirm. The problem is guys keep it vague, like mention Saturday but doesn’t secure a time or place. If men would just secure a time and place, and then tell her “I’ll text or call you Friday to confirm, but we are all set for Saturday,” then that would help put the woman at ease.

Ladies, tired of bad first dates, then tell us more about you and who you are seeking. It’s free to get set up by clicking here.

Thanks for stopping by to have coffee with us. Picky singles should be more choosy about commitment but not choosy about going on a first date. Just go say hi and see if you hit it off. That’s going to increase your chances of meeting a lot of people and get to know someone. It’s no different than meeting a platonic friend. You try to see if you have anything in common or if you click with him or her. What about distance? Is that a deal breaker for you? Maybe if your life is established in one city and you can’t imagine yourself relocating. If you have three things on your checklist, that is great. Go with it. If you have ten things on your checklist, that is unreasonable. You are giving excuses as to why you don’t go out on a date and you will never meet your partner. If you’re the type who is super picky and not getting out there on any dates, then we have the solution for you. Why not say yes to the next person who wants to get to know you better but just do a coffee date? It’s not going to kill you to meet someone new. You might be surprised how lovely they are. We work with picky clients and sometimes they refuse to meet someone but then they bend and say a coffee date is fine. So, we set it up and then they hit it off. Give people a chance and you might be surprised. Just say YES to the next person who asks you out. The type of people you are attracting are the type of people you should be dating. They are already excited to meet you. They are interested! Ladies, want to meet someone great, then fill out this profile.