💕 How to Flirt and Connect at a Dallas Singles Mixer
Join Cocktails & Connections for Dallas Singles Ages 35-55 on Sunday, October 19, 2:30–5pm at Dua Trattoria in Frisco — the city’s most exciting singles event! Top Asian matchmaker Matchmaker May is hosting a singles mixer in Dallas area. You don’t want to miss it. We are expecting at least 45 men and women so far.
Want to stand out? Smile, make eye contact, and start a fun conversation like, “What are you drinking?” Keep your phone down and your energy up — confidence is irresistible. Dress sharp, stay relaxed, and let sparks fly.
Women’s tickets and Men’s tickets available:
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Why Now is the Best Time to Find Love
Labor Day has passed, the days are getting shorter, and fall is officially here. As we head into the last few months of the year, many Asian singles start asking themselves:
👉 “What happened to my love life this year?”
👉 “Didn’t I promise myself that 2024 would be the year I found my person?”
👉 “Am I about to lose another year without meeting someone special?”
If that sounds like you, here’s the good news: it’s not too late. Fall is one of the best seasons for Asian dating — a fresh opportunity to meet Asian singles, focus on love, and create meaningful connections before the New Year, especially before Chinese New Year!
Why Fall is Perfect for Asian Singles to Find Love
Unlike the busy summer months, fall brings structure and routine back into our lives. People are more open to building relationships and preparing for the holidays with someone special. If you’re serious about finding love in Asian dating, now is the time to get started.
1. Make Space for Love in Your Life
Many Asian professionals think they’ll “make time” for dating once they meet the right person. But successful relationships require space to grow. If you’re serious about finding a partner, you may need to rearrange your schedule and make dating a real priority. Matchmaker May’s biggest pet peeve is when a single gives her a few day to date…but it’s two weeks out!
2. Get Clear on Your Dating Goals and Values
In Asian dating, cultural and family values often play a huge role. Ask yourself:
- Do I want to date within my cultural background?
- How important is family approval in my relationship?
- Am I looking for marriage and a long-term commitment, or just casual dating?
Clarity attracts compatibility. If you’re vague, you risk wasting time with partners who don’t share your vision.
3. Update Your Online Dating Profile
Most Asian singles are now online — but is your dating profile helping or hurting your chances?
- Does your profile reflect your values, lifestyle, and relationship goals?
- Do your photos show the real, confident you?
- Are you clear about seeking a serious, long-term relationship?
A few small updates can make a huge difference in attracting the right Asian singles.
4. Recognize and Remove Dating Roadblocks
If dating hasn’t worked for you so far, it’s time to reflect:
- Are you repeating old patterns with the wrong type of partner?
- Are you too focused on family pressure before giving someone a chance?
- Do you struggle with confidence or communication?
By identifying these challenges, you’ll be better prepared for dating success this fall.
5. Go Where Like-Minded Asian Singles Are
Love is usually found where values align. If you value culture, family, or faith, spend time in those communities. If you love travel or adventure, join groups that share those interests. Whether through local cultural events, professional networking, or Asian matchmaking services, the key is to be intentional about where you invest your time.
6. Take Online Dating Seriously
Many Asian singles are hesitant about dating apps — but done right, they work. In fact, a large percentage of happy couples meet online. The key is strategy:
- Be upfront about seeking a serious relationship or marriage.
- Show up authentically with values first, not just looks.
- Filter matches to focus only on those who align with your goals.
Done well, online Asian dating saves time and connects you with singles who want the same future.
7. Use Your “Connectors”
In Asian culture, friends and family often help with introductions. But for that to work, you need to be clear about what you’re looking for. Share your vision of your ideal partner — not just physical traits, but values, lifestyle, and relationship goals. This helps your network recognize potential matches you may have overlooked.
💡 Don’t Let Another Year Slip Away
Fall is the season of new beginnings — and it’s the perfect time to refresh your approach to dating. By creating space for love, updating your profile, and connecting with like-minded Asian singles, you can make this year the one you finally find your person.
👉 Ready to take your Asian dating journey seriously?
Work with us to refine your strategy, connect with quality Asian singles, and find the meaningful relationship you’ve been waiting for. If you are a woman and want to be part of Matchmaker May's database, fill out your profile here: https://twoasianmatchmakers.com/profile/
When clients come to us and work with Asian match makers, they need to be realistic. They need to understand that as Asian match makers, are introducing them to the top Asian women who want to meet them. Our clients often times get into a relationship with someone they meet through us. It is usually one of the first 5 women they meet.
We can introduce you to the quality women, but we can’t close the deal for you. It’s up to you to woo them, wine and dine them. If you are not doing your part in texting them, calling them, or communicating with them to set up the next date, they might lose interest.
Remember what you talked about on the date and use that information to ask them out on another date. If you talked about hiking a certain area and she seemed like she was interested in going, then invite her out to that place that you two discussed. It shows that you remember the date and what you talked about. Ask her out with a time and place and make a date. Women want to look forward to something.
Don’t say, “Let’s hang out next Friday” and don’t give her any specifics. That is the quickest way for her to lose interest. She will think you’re lazy and not a good dater. Keep the momentum going. Date one needs to turn into date two. Date two needs to turn into date three if you like her. Show her that you want to be with her and pursue her.
We are another resource for women. Just because you fill out a profile, it doesn’t mean we will have a ton of dates for you, but if you’re a great match for one of our paying male clients, we will set you up for free. We are always looking for quality women for our men!
Fill out your profile with us here: https://twoasianmatchmakers.com/online-profile/
What You Should Know When You Hire a Matchmaker
The Type of Person Who Hires a Matchmaker
First of all, not everyone wants to hire a matchmaker or can afford to hire a matchmaker. Someone who chooses to hire a matchmaker values their time more than money. They are someone who is tired of doing the work themselves and getting the same results. They are not afraid to be proactive and asks for help. They probably have a good career and are used to delegating many areas of their lives. They find that they are expert at their jobs but not necessarily the same way when it comes to their dating life. They want to try something different and let a professional do it for them. When you hire a matchmaker, it’s not cheap. The price will be in the thousands for a good one. Find one with at least 5 or more years of experience. Be cautious of new matchmakers who claim they have the experience, but oftentimes, just run away with your money.
When you hire a matchmaker, it doesn’t mean all your problems go away. There is a process. You have some more help on your side and that’s great. But, you have to do the work, too. You still have to be a good dater or learn to be one. You have to be open to feedback and try to change some things that have been hindering your love life. It is not going to happen overnight but hopefully you will learn something out of the process to be a better dating version of you. You have our expertise, knowledge, and database to help you. Here is how the process works and what you can expect. Our video gives you a good idea of how it works and things to expect in your journey.
Nothing is more annoying to women than her liking a guy and she thinks he likes her, too, and they are supposed to go out next week….but, she doesn’t know when or where they are going out. He said, “Let’s hang out on Friday,” and she says, “Sure.” But then he doesn’t contact her on Tuesday, Wednesday, or Thursday yet to tell her when and where they are meeting. So, she was first smitten with him and now she is annoyed with him. What can guys do to have better communication with a woman so she is not annoyed with him?
We often get date feedback from our clients. Some inexperienced daters are a diamond in the rough. They just need a little bit more guidance in dating. Just because they’ve read about dating, doesn’t mean they know how to do it. Beware of going through your checklist when out with that beautiful woman in front of you. The conversation won’t sound natural if you’re not comfortable or in the moment. Inexperienced daters are the ones who can be easily molded into great daters. They just need the experience.
If you’re looking for some help in dating, we are here for you. Contact us or fill out a profile. If you’re a woman and a great catch, we can match you up for free if you are who he is seeking. Just fill out this profile.
Asian Date Ideas for Good 1st Impression
Chipotle is great, but for a first Asian date? That place poses a lot of questions that makes it uncomfortable for a first impression. Do you order at the same time, do you get the table first, and what about where to sit so it’s quiet? If you think a fast food place is a good place to take someone on a first Asian date, think again. What other places are making a horrible first impression? And inviting her to your place on the first Asian date? That might make her feel weird. What if he shows you his gun collection? Too many things can go wrong. What if you want to stop seeing her and now she is a stalker. She knows where you live and what if things don’t work out? We know you want to show off your oceanfront condo but there is a time and place for that. And lastly, don’t take her to a bar that you go frequently. It’s awkward if the servers knows your name and the bartender sees you there with many different women. You want to go to a new place so you can both bond together and experience something unique together. Also, if you are too comfortable at the bar, she might think you are an alcoholic and that you drink a lot. There are plenty of other great places to take someone where it won’t be so awkward and uncomfortable for her. Plus, it’ll mean something when you do take her to your frequent hangout down the road.
Ladies, want to find the one through us? Fill out this profile and we can try to help. It’s free to get set up with our male paying clients. CLICK HERE
Asian Match Making Tips
Asian match making tips by May will help you out. There are some things you do that will ruin a date. You might not be getting a second date. Is it because you like talking about politics? There are so many dinner table topics so choose wisely. Our Asian match making tips today can help. Sometimes, you’re not aware that you’re doing these things. It’s best to always be on your best behavior but sometimes you forget. You are too comfortable on the date. You let your guard down. Sometimes guys brag about themselves. There is a reason why guys do that. If you think that you’re talking too much, you probably are. Keep the ladies talking by asking her questions. If you are dominating the conversation, take a step back and give her the floor. If you’re nervous while on the date and you start rambling on and on and you don’t even know what the sound of her voice sounds like, then you are making a horrible first impression. If you keep doing things like this, then it will for sure drive her away. Take a look at this video and tune in to our Asian match making tips and learn something. Don’t say we didn’t warn you gentlemen. Let the conversation flow naturally so it doesn’t feel forced or fake. She can tell if you are trying to hard. Yes, women are pretty smart.
On a side note, we’re always looking for awesome men and women for our paying clients. It’s free to be part of our database and to go out with a client if you’re a good match. It doesn’t cost you anything to fill this out, meet with us, or get set up. You just have to be a good catch, in good shape, and interesting. Just fill out this profile and under how did you hear about us, click CUPID ALERT (that’s how we know you want to be considered for a FREE match): CLICK HERE
So you’re getting drinks and appetizers for a date. She orders a nice drink and you order a water. Then she feels awkward and she thinks you’re cheap or trying to save some money. No woman wants to date a cheap guy. That is pretty much a guarantee. Maybe you can order a diet coke or a drink. No woman has ever said, “I want to date a guy who is cheap.” So, men, the advice is to not be cheap. But it’s probably something you grow up with so it’s tough to change something like that but you can try to change. If you go for a drinks date and don’t order a drink, that’s weird, because then she’ll wonder why you’re not ordering a drink and she’s drinking alone. Women don’t normally like to drink alone. Another thing that might bother women is when you order for her, but don’t do that without asking for her opinion. If you order stuff that she doesn’t eat, it’s rude. We had a woman who did this, too. She is a frequent diner at the restaurant and she just orders for her date and her and he just thought she was too familiar with that place and was rude to just order for both of them without consulting him what he likes to eat. So, just be mindful. Ask to share something and get each others’ opinions.
On a side note, we also work with a lot of Christian clients who are seeking other Christians. We also partner up with a great Christian matchmaker in town. We are always looking for other matchmakers to work with so if you know of a great Christian matchmaker, send her our way. It’s free to be part of our database and to go out with a client if you’re a good match. Just fill out this profile and under how did you hear about us, click CUPID ALERT (that’s how we know you want to be considered for a FREE match): CLICK HERE
