For Men Open to a Serious Relationship Beyond U.S. Dating Apps

If you’re a man between 50 and 70 who is open to traveling, meeting women in person, and pursuing a real marriage—not endless texting or casual dating—you’re not alone.

Many men reach this stage of life wanting something different:

• A genuine partner, not a pen pal
• A woman who values commitment and family
• A relationship built on intention, not swiping

For men who are open to meeting women overseas, particularly in China, international matchmaking offers a purposeful and refreshing path forward.

Why Consider Meeting a Woman Overseas?

Women in China aged 40 to 60 who are open to relocation are often:

• Serious about marriage
• Emotionally mature and family-oriented
• Open to building a life in the United States
• Interested in meeting men who are stable, respectful, and intentional

Many of these women have children, life experience, and a clear vision for partnership. They are not looking to “date around”—they are looking for a husband and a future.

Travel With Purpose. Date With Clarity.

Traveling to meet a woman in person allows you to:

• Build real connection face-to-face
• Understand cultural values firsthand
• Avoid misunderstandings common in online dating
• Decide quickly if there is true compatibility

Men who are willing to travel often find the experience meaningful, eye-opening, and far more aligned with their long-term goals.

Who This Is For

This opportunity is ideal for men who:

• Are open to international dating and marriage
• Value loyalty, family, and partnership
• Are emotionally available and marriage-minded
• Are willing to travel to meet women in person
• Prefer a guided, private, and intentional process

You do not need to be flashy, wealthy, or a “perfect” online profile. You simply need to be sincere, respectful, and serious about building a life with someone.

Work With a Trusted Matchmaker

At Two Asian Matchmakers, we work with American men who are open to meeting women overseas through a personalized, ethical, and highly selective matchmaking process.

We guide you step by step—ensuring clarity, compatibility, and mutual intent—so you’re not navigating international dating alone or blindly.

Take the First Step

If you’re open to exploring a serious relationship with a woman overseas and want professional guidance, we invite you to start a private conversation.

This is not about volume dating.
This is about one meaningful match—done the right way.

We can help with our extensive practical experience with U.S. visa categories, including F-1, J-1, B-1/B-2, and H-1B.

👉 Inquire privately to see if this approach is right for you. Call May at (310) 867-0851 or email us at May@twoasianmatchmakers.com

Asian Matchmaking for Professionals Who Want Real Connection

Let’s Be Honest — Nobody Needs a Matchmaker

You can meet people anywhere — at work, at the gym, through friends, or at your favorite boba shop if you linger long enough. 🍵

But my clients don’t hire me because they can’t meet people. They hire me because they’re done wasting time on surface-level dating and want meaningful, culturally compatible relationships.

Why Asian and Asian-American Professionals Choose Matchmaking

After 16 years of helping Asian singles across the U.S., I’ve learned that dating is different when culture, family, and expectations are part of the equation.

Many Asian and Asian-American professionals tell me:

“It’s hard to find someone who gets both my background and my mindset.”

They’re successful, family-oriented, and ambitious — but tired of ghosting, mixed signals, and “situationships.”

That’s where professional Asian matchmaking changes everything.

Matchmaking Isn’t Desperation — It’s Smart Delegation

You already hire experts to save time and get results — your fitness coach, your CPA, your attorney, your mentor. Why not delegate your love life to someone who specializes in high-quality introductions?

At Two Asian Matchmakers, we combine personalized guidance with cultural understanding. We screen for shared values, family expectations, and long-term compatibility — things an app could never match.

Matchmaking is for people who want better results, not for people who “can’t do it on their own.”

Dating With Intention and Cultural Insight

Our clients are busy, emotionally intelligent professionals who are ready for intentional dating — the kind that respects tradition while embracing modern connection.

Whether you’re in Dallas, Los Angeles, San Francisco, or anywhere in the U.S., our mission is simple: help Asian singles meet partners who share their goals, values, and vision for the future.

Ready to Meet Someone Who Truly Gets You?

👉 Start Your Private Search Today

Two Asian Matchmakers — where love meets culture, and connection meets intention.

One of the key differences between working with a professional matchmaker and using online dating apps is simple: you go on real, face-to-face dates.

If you’ve found yourself spending time swiping, messaging, and navigating conversations that never lead anywhere, you’re not alone. Many successful professionals come to me after realizing that while apps offer access, they rarely create meaningful opportunities to meet in person.

My approach is different. I focus on creating real introductions with intention behind each one.

When I present a match to you, it’s not random. I’ve already taken the time to get to know her, understand her relationship goals, and confirm her genuine interest in meeting you. If there’s mutual interest, my team and I take care of everything needed to bring that introduction to life.

A real date. Thoughtfully arranged. In person.

Our Process in Four Steps:

If you’re ready to move beyond apps and experience a more intentional way of meeting someone, I invite you to take the next step.

Schedule a private consultation, and we’ll explore whether this is the right fit for you. 

If you’re open to meeting a relationship-minded, accomplished partner, I invite you to join our private network.

There is no cost to be included, and every introduction is handled with care, discretion, and intention.

If you’ve ever felt uncertain about your “picker,” you’re not alone.

Many accomplished professionals come to us when they realize that finding the right partner benefits from clarity, perspective, and the guidance of someone who understands the process.

That’s where we come in.

Once we get to know you, we take on the responsibility of selecting your matches with care and intention. Each introduction is carefully selected to reflect your key preferences, priorities, and the insights we’ve gained from years of successful matchmaking.

We take the time to understand who you’re truly seeking, and then we go to work behind the scenes.

Our Process in Four Steps:

• If you’re ready for a more intentional, guided approach to meeting someone, we invite you to take the next step. Schedule a private consultation to explore if this is the right fit for you.

Our 70% success rate means that signing up with Two Asian Matchmakers dramatically increases your chances of finding a soul mate. And that is something to celebrate.

One of the advantages of working with a professional matchmaker is that you can focus on the experience of meeting someone new rather than managing the logistics.

There is no need to call your date to ask her out, coordinate schedules, or search for the right venue. Our team handles those details on your behalf.

Once we receive your availability, we coordinate with your match to find a time that works for both of you. We also research and select an appropriate venue for the meeting and take care of the reservation.

Our goal is to make the process simple, comfortable, and seamless so you can focus on getting to know each other.

Our Process in Four Steps:

May, I just wanted most of all to give you accolades for what a great job you have done for me in the past year or so.  As a busy professional, I don’t have time to go online and send messages to single women. I am tired when I come home from work. Delegating this part of my life was the best thing that has happened. You are a pleasure to deal with. We communicate regularly and you gave me just the kick in the pants to start dating again. I just wanted to make sure you knew how pleased I was with you and with your efforts on my behalf.~ Roger T., 60, Attorney, Orange County

Privacy matters, especially when it comes to your personal life.

Many of our clients are accomplished professionals: CEOs, entrepreneurs, and individuals in leadership roles, who prefer to keep their dating lives private. The idea of having personal details, photos, and relationship intentions visible to a broad audience doesn’t align with how they choose to live or work.

And that concern is well-founded.

Today’s dating platforms often require a significant amount of personal information, from photos and location data to lifestyle details. In many cases, this information is not only visible to other users but may also be shared, stored, or exposed in ways that are difficult to control.

At Two Asian Matchmakers, we take a different approach.

Your profile is never public. It is shared only within our team of professional matchmakers, and introductions are made thoughtfully, one at a time, with mutual interest established before any connection is made.

There is no browsing, swiping, or unnecessary exposure.

Every introduction is handled with discretion, care, and respect for your time, your privacy, and your reputation.

Because finding the right partner should feel personal, not public.

“I’ve never been happier. Thanks to May, I met my lovely wife and we’re expecting our 3rd kid. I’m so glad I signed up with your firm.” ~John S, 47, Investor, Redondo Beach, CA

I’ve been helping exceptional singles find meaningful relationships since 2009, and over the years, I’ve built the largest private network of Asian women in the United States, along with trusted connections with matchmakers across the U.S. and Asia.

While no matchmaking service can ever guarantee the perfect outcome, what I can promise is this: you will meet quality, vetted women, and my team and I will work diligently on your behalf at every step of the process.

With a proven success rate of over 71% when clients participate fully in the introductions I recommend, the odds are in your favor. At Two Asian Matchmakers, I offer a personalized, discreet, and intentional approach, making sure your journey toward a lasting relationship is guided, supported, and thoughtfully curated.

Get Started

At Two Asian Matchmakers, we are always looking to meet relationship-minded women who are open to building a meaningful partnership.

Joining our network is another way to expand your opportunities to meet exceptional men who are serious about commitment. While submitting a profile does not guarantee immediate introductions, it allows our team to thoughtfully consider you when a strong match arises with one of our male clients.

Our approach is selective and intentional. We believe introductions should be made with care, alignment, and mutual interest, not volume. When there is genuine compatibility, we coordinate the introduction and handle the details so you can focus on the experience of meeting someone new. This concierge-style process is designed to be respectful, discreet, and centered on long-term compatibility.

We welcome women who are open-minded, relationship-focused, and interested in meeting men who value commitment, stability, and shared values.

If this resonates with you, we invite you to complete a profile and introduce yourself to our team.

Submit your profile here:

The Type of Person Who Hires a Matchmaker

Not everyone chooses to hire a matchmaker, and that’s perfectly okay. Matchmaking is a thoughtful investment, typically made by individuals who value their time, privacy, and the quality of their relationships.

Many of our clients are accomplished professionals who have built successful careers and full lives. They are confident in their fields, accustomed to delegating important responsibilities, and understand the value of working with experienced professionals. When it comes to dating, however, they recognize that expertise in business does not always translate to expertise in relationships.

Often, they come to us after realizing they are putting in effort but seeing the same patterns repeat. They are open to trying a more intentional approach and welcome guidance from someone who understands both the emotional and practical aspects of modern dating.

Working with a professional matchmaker is not an inexpensive service. Quality matchmaking typically requires a meaningful financial commitment, and for good reason; it involves time, discretion, expertise, and access to a carefully cultivated network. When considering a matchmaker, it is wise to look for someone with a proven track record, established experience, and a reputation built on trust.

What Happens After You Hire a Matchmaker

Hiring a matchmaker does not mean every challenge disappears overnight. Like any meaningful process, building a relationship takes time, patience, and participation from both sides.

What you gain is support. A knowledgeable partner who advocates for you, provides honest feedback, and helps guide your dating journey with clarity and intention.

You will still play an active role in the process. Successful clients are typically:

• Open to feedback
• Willing to reflect on past experiences
• Ready to make thoughtful adjustments
• Committed to showing up with curiosity and optimism

Over time, many clients discover that the experience is not only about meeting someone new, but also about becoming more confident, more self-aware, and more prepared for a lasting partnership.

Our role is to provide the structure, resources, and introductions. Your role is to engage in the process and remain open to growth. Together, that partnership creates the strongest foundation for success.

How the Process Works

While every journey is unique, the experience is designed to feel organized, supportive, and straightforward. From the initial consultation to each carefully arranged introduction, our goal is to make the process seamless so you can focus on what matters most, building a genuine connection.

Working with a matchmaker means you no longer navigate dating alone. You have an experienced team supporting you, refining the search, and helping you move forward with confidence.

If you’d like to see more of how I approach matchmaking and hear practical insights from my day-to-day work with clients, I invite you to follow me on Instagram. I regularly share short interviews, behind-the-scenes moments, and real guidance based on years of helping men and women build meaningful relationships.

Many people ask how I began this work and what led me to build Two Asian Matchmakers. Like many meaningful journeys, it started with a simple realization: relationships deserve the same level of intention and care that we give to our careers, our health, and our future.

How My Journey Began

Before becoming a matchmaker, I worked in upper management at a Fortune 500 company. In December 2006, I made a decision that changed the course of my life. I stepped away from corporate leadership and began exploring the idea of starting a dating company.

At the time, I spent countless hours researching, reading books about entrepreneurs, and studying the dating industry. I even applied for positions at established dating companies, hoping to learn from within. When those opportunities didn’t materialize, I asked myself a different question:

Why work for someone else when I could build something of my own?

In 2007, I started my matchmaking company at my kitchen table in Los Angeles. It was a humble beginning, but it was fueled by curiosity, determination, and a genuine desire to help people find meaningful relationships.

I’ve always enjoyed connecting with others, listening to their stories, and understanding what truly matters to them. That natural inclination became the foundation of my work. Over time, I noticed an increasing number of men reaching out with a very specific request: they wanted to meet Asian women who shared their values, cultural appreciation, and long-term relationship goals.

That demand helped shape the direction of my business.

Building a Niche With Purpose

As the years passed, I developed a clear focus, serving men of all backgrounds across Los Angeles and throughout the United States who are seeking meaningful relationships with Asian women.

Today, our network has grown into one of the largest private communities of relationship-minded Asian women in the country. These women are accomplished, thoughtful, and serious about partnership. Many value family, personal growth, and long-term compatibility.

What began as a small idea has evolved into a lifelong passion.

Over the years, I have had the privilege of arranging introductions that led to committed relationships, engagements, marriages, and families. Watching those stories unfold remains one of the most rewarding parts of my work.

And it continues to motivate me every day.

Lessons From Building a Business

Starting a company, especially one centered on relationships, is never without challenges.

Like most entrepreneurs, I learned through experience, persistence, and sometimes trial and error. In the early years, I experimented with different marketing channels, partnerships, and strategies. Some worked well. Others did not.

One of the most valuable lessons I learned was the importance of protecting the integrity of the brand. Not every opportunity is the right opportunity. There were moments when I had to politely decline partnerships or events that didn’t align with our values or long-term vision.

That discipline helped shape the company into what it is today.

Another turning point came when I invested in professional guidance for my business. Hiring a coach provided clarity and perspective, allowing me to focus on the work that truly moves the business forward: serving clients, building relationships, and continuously improving our process.

I also learned an important lesson about value.

In the beginning, many entrepreneurs, myself included, underestimate the worth of their expertise. Over time, I came to understand that the time, discretion, and personalized attention we provide are meaningful investments in our clients’ lives.

That realization strengthened my commitment to delivering exceptional service.

What Makes Our Approach Different

My philosophy has always been simple:

Quality relationships require focused attention.

I do not believe in multitasking when it comes to matchmaking. Every client receives individualized care, thoughtful guidance, and honest feedback throughout the process.

When I work with a client, I take the time to understand:

• • Their values
• • Their lifestyle
• • Their relationship goals
• • Their long-term vision for partnership

From there, I carefully evaluate potential matches with a close and deliberate eye. Compatibility is never assumed; it is thoughtfully considered.

My role is to advocate for my clients, highlight their strengths, and introduce them to women who are genuinely aligned with their values and intentions.

Privacy is also a cornerstone of our work. Many of our clients are executives, entrepreneurs, and professionals who prefer discretion in their personal lives. I respect that completely. Every introduction is handled with confidentiality and care.

And when two people are ready to meet, my team and I take care of the details.

We coordinate schedules, select an appropriate venue, make reservations, and ensure the experience feels comfortable and seamless. This allows both individuals to focus on what matters most, the conversation and the connection.

Who We Serve Best

Our clients are typically successful professionals who value their time and want a more intentional approach to dating.

They have worked hard to build meaningful careers, maintain their health, and nurture strong relationships with family and friends. When it comes to finding a partner, they want the same level of thoughtfulness and efficiency.

The men we work with invest in the process, and the women in our network join at no cost when they are a strong match for one of our clients. This structure allows us to maintain a curated, high-quality environment for everyone involved.

One principle I remain deeply committed to is honesty.

If I believe I am not the right fit for someone, I will tell them directly and respectfully. Protecting trust is more important than signing a contract.

The Qualities That Matter Most in Matchmaking

People often ask what makes someone successful in this profession.

For me, the answer comes down to a few essential qualities:

Compassion. Empathy. Patience.

Every client arrives with a unique story: sometimes hopeful, sometimes discouraged, and often uncertain about what comes next. My role is to support them, guide them, and help them move forward with clarity and confidence.

At times, that means offering encouragement.

At other times, it means providing honest feedback, even when it is difficult to hear.

There is a balance between being supportive and being truthful. Both are necessary for growth and lasting relationships.

After each introduction, we provide thoughtful feedback to help our clients refine their approach and become more confident in the dating process. Over time, this guidance helps them build stronger connections and make better relationship decisions.

A Commitment That Continues

What began at a kitchen table in Los Angeles has grown into a trusted matchmaking service serving clients across the United States and internationally.

Yet the core mission remains the same:

To create meaningful introductions that lead to lasting relationships.

Every day, I am grateful for the opportunity to help people find companionship, partnership, and love. I remain committed to approaching this work with integrity, discretion, and care.

Contact Information

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www.twoasianmatchmakers.com

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(310) 867-0851

Email:

may@twoasianmatchmakers.com

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