Meet a Chinese Woman
You Can Build a Life With
Work with a personal Chinese matchmaker who takes time to understand your relationship goals, cultural preferences, and the life you hope to share. My team and I help Chinese men in the U.S. explore thoughtful introductions, with date coordination and personal guidance throughout your search.
You Know What You Want.
Finding Someone Compatible Has Been Harder.
You want to meet a Chinese woman you’re attracted to, feel comfortable with, and can picture building a life with. Finding that connection hasn’t been easy.
A shared background may help you understand each other. But you also want your personalities, priorities, and plans for the future to fit.
When meeting people hasn’t led to that connection, it can be frustrating to keep putting time into your search.
I take time to understand who you hope to meet and what matters to you in a relationship. You can discuss your search with me privately and explore a more personal way to meet someone.
Shared Culture Matters. So Do Your Individual Preferences.
What feels familiar and important to you may be different for someone else.
As a Chinese matchmaker, I bring a personal cultural perspective to your search while taking time to understand your own upbringing, beliefs, and expectations.
Your Conversations Can Explore
Cultural background
Whether you hope to meet a Chinese-American woman or someone with another Chinese background.
Language
The languages you feel most comfortable speaking with a partner.
Faith and family
Religious practice, family involvement, and traditions you want to share.
Everyday compatibility
Career, lifestyle, and day-to-day rhythm of life.
Location
Where you want to build your life and whether you are open to travel.
Future & family plans
Your hopes for marriage, whether you want children, and the life you hope to build together.
A Personal Process, From the First Conversation to Your Dates
Tell Us What Matters to You
Discuss your dating experiences, relationship goals, and preferences. We use those conversations to understand whom you hope to meet and assess the search we can undertake.
Consider a Thoughtful Introduction
My team and I consider potential matches through our network and recruiting connections. You receive photos and a bio before meeting, and an introduction proceeds when both people are interested.
Meet, Reflect, and Share Feedback
Our team coordinates the date and gathers feedback afterward. You have someone to discuss the experience with as we learn more about what feels compatible for you.
Meet May Bugenhagen
I’m a Chinese matchmaker and the founder of Two Asian Matchmakers.
I take time to understand what your cultural background means in your everyday life, how you approach relationships, and what you want from a partnership.
My role is to turn those conversations into a considered search, with personal introductions, coordination, and feedback along the way.
Your initial sales call is an opportunity to speak with me directly about your relationship goals, learn about matchmaking options, and discuss how I would approach your search.
- Certified Matchmaker, Global Love Institute
- Member, Matchmakers Alliance
Success Stories
Real clients with real love stories.
” Thank you so much May for your help in finding my wife. We have a beautiful baby boy (he’s 2 this month). ”
P.T.
Santa Monica, Psychiatry Doctor and Consultant.
” This Los Angeles Asian Dating Service is the real deal. May calls you, texts you, emails you, and is your biggest cheerleader. She cares! May found me someone to date exclusively after working with her for 2 months! ”
Troy L.
45, Newport Beach, CA
” I’ve never been happier. Thanks to May, I met my lovely wife and we’re expecting our 3rd kid. I’m so glad I signed up with your firm. ”
John S
47, Redondo Beach, CA
Voted “Best Asian Matchmaker in United States of 2025”
from BestofBestReview.com, a prestigious and exclusive authority in the industry
Personal Support for an Important Search
I offer a personal matchmaking service for Chinese men seeking a committed relationship, with one-on-one attention to who you hope to meet.
My team and I get to know your preferences, lifestyle, and relationship goals, then hand-select potential introductions through our network. We coordinate dates, gather feedback, and offer guidance along the way, with care for your privacy throughout the process.
Before you decide to work with us, I’ll explain how I would approach your search, what the service includes, pricing, and terms.
Let’s Talk About Your Search
During your 45-minute sales call, we’ll discuss:
- The woman you hope to meet and the relationship you want.
- Your location, preferences, and dating circumstances.
- How my team and I would approach your search.
- The service, pricing, and support available to you.
You’ll have time to ask questions and decide whether working together makes sense for you.
Get startedComplimentary 45-minute sales call with May
Your Questions About Chinese Matchmaking
How much does matchmaking cost for men?
Pricing depends on the scope of your search and the service agreed upon. I’ll explain the matchmaking options, pricing, and contract terms during your sales call. The call is complimentary, and you can decide whether you’d like to work together.
What happens when I click “Get started”?
You’ll visit our Contact page, where men can book a sales call, and women can apply to join our private network. If you have a question, you can send us a message using the form on that page.
Is creating a profile free for Chinese women?
Yes. Chinese women can create a free profile to be considered for introductions to my matchmaking clients. Joining does not guarantee a match or an introduction. If a potential introduction is identified, my team will contact you to explore mutual interest.
Two Ways to Connect
Ready to Begin? Choose How You’d Like to Reach Me.
If you’d prefer to call, you’re welcome to reach me on my cell. Tell me a little about who you hope to meet, and I’ll answer your questions about how I can help.
Option 1
Book a Call
Schedule a dedicated 45-minute sales call at a time that works best for your schedule.
Book a Sales Call45 minutes · Complimentary call
Option 2
Call Me Now
Reach me directly on my cell. If I can’t pick up, leave a message and I’ll call you back.
(310) 867-0851Call or text · (310) 867-0851
Tell Me Who You Hope to Meet
Discuss your relationship goals, explore matchmaking options, and decide whether my service is right for you.
Get startedComplimentary 45-minute sales call with me.