💕 How to Flirt and Connect at a Dallas Singles Mixer

Join Cocktails & Connections for Dallas Singles Ages 35-55 on Sunday, October 19, 2:30–5pm at Dua Trattoria in Frisco — the city’s most exciting singles event! Top Asian matchmaker Matchmaker May is hosting a singles mixer in Dallas area. You don’t want to miss it. We are expecting at least 45 men and women so far.

Want to stand out? Smile, make eye contact, and start a fun conversation like, “What are you drinking?” Keep your phone down and your energy up — confidence is irresistible. Dress sharp, stay relaxed, and let sparks fly.

Women’s tickets and Men’s tickets available:

Eventbrite link:

https://www.eventbrite.com/e/cocktails-and-connections-for-singles-ages-35-55-tickets-1704745261969?aff=oddtdtcreator

Why Now is the Best Time to Find Love

Labor Day has passed, the days are getting shorter, and fall is officially here. As we head into the last few months of the year, many Asian singles start asking themselves:

👉 “What happened to my love life this year?”
👉 “Didn’t I promise myself that 2024 would be the year I found my person?”
👉 “Am I about to lose another year without meeting someone special?”

If that sounds like you, here’s the good news: it’s not too late. Fall is one of the best seasons for Asian dating — a fresh opportunity to meet Asian singles, focus on love, and create meaningful connections before the New Year, especially before Chinese New Year!

Why Fall is Perfect for Asian Singles to Find Love

Unlike the busy summer months, fall brings structure and routine back into our lives. People are more open to building relationships and preparing for the holidays with someone special. If you’re serious about finding love in Asian dating, now is the time to get started.

1. Make Space for Love in Your Life

Many Asian professionals think they’ll “make time” for dating once they meet the right person. But successful relationships require space to grow. If you’re serious about finding a partner, you may need to rearrange your schedule and make dating a real priority. Matchmaker May’s biggest pet peeve is when a single gives her a few day to date…but it’s two weeks out!

2. Get Clear on Your Dating Goals and Values

In Asian dating, cultural and family values often play a huge role. Ask yourself:

Clarity attracts compatibility. If you’re vague, you risk wasting time with partners who don’t share your vision.

3. Update Your Online Dating Profile

Most Asian singles are now online — but is your dating profile helping or hurting your chances?

A few small updates can make a huge difference in attracting the right Asian singles.

4. Recognize and Remove Dating Roadblocks

If dating hasn’t worked for you so far, it’s time to reflect:

By identifying these challenges, you’ll be better prepared for dating success this fall.

5. Go Where Like-Minded Asian Singles Are

Love is usually found where values align. If you value culture, family, or faith, spend time in those communities. If you love travel or adventure, join groups that share those interests. Whether through local cultural events, professional networking, or Asian matchmaking services, the key is to be intentional about where you invest your time.

6. Take Online Dating Seriously

Many Asian singles are hesitant about dating apps — but done right, they work. In fact, a large percentage of happy couples meet online. The key is strategy:

Done well, online Asian dating saves time and connects you with singles who want the same future.

7. Use Your “Connectors”

In Asian culture, friends and family often help with introductions. But for that to work, you need to be clear about what you’re looking for. Share your vision of your ideal partner — not just physical traits, but values, lifestyle, and relationship goals. This helps your network recognize potential matches you may have overlooked.

💡 Don’t Let Another Year Slip Away

Fall is the season of new beginnings — and it’s the perfect time to refresh your approach to dating. By creating space for love, updating your profile, and connecting with like-minded Asian singles, you can make this year the one you finally find your person.

👉 Ready to take your Asian dating journey seriously?
Work with us to refine your strategy, connect with quality Asian singles, and find the meaningful relationship you’ve been waiting for. If you are a woman and want to be part of Matchmaker May's database, fill out your profile here: https://twoasianmatchmakers.com/profile/

There is no playing phone tag with your potential date. You do not need to call her and ask her out. You do not need to find a place that is suitable to meet.

We do all that for you.

We get your free dates and times. Then we ask your date when she is free.

We do the research online to find a good place to meet.

We make the reservations.

Our process in 4 EASY steps:

May, I just wanted most of all to give you accolades for what a great job you have done for me in the past year or so.  As a busy professional, I don’t have time to go online and send messages to single women. I am tired when I come home from work. Delegating this part of my life was the best thing that has happened. You are a pleasure to deal with. We communicate regularly and you gave me just the kick in the pants to start dating again. I just wanted to make sure you knew how pleased I was with you and with your efforts on my behalf.~ Roger T., 60, Attorney, Orange County

When clients come to us and work with Asian match makers, they need to be realistic. They need to understand that as Asian match makers, are introducing them to the top Asian women who want to meet them. Our clients often times get into a relationship with someone they meet through us. It is usually one of the first 5 women they meet.

We can introduce you to the quality women, but we can’t close the deal for you. It’s up to you to woo them, wine and dine them. If you are not doing your part in texting them, calling them, or communicating with them to set up the next date, they might lose interest.

Remember what you talked about on the date and use that information to ask them out on another date. If you talked about hiking a certain area and she seemed like she was interested in going, then invite her out to that place that you two discussed. It shows that you remember the date and what you talked about. Ask her out with a time and place and make a date. Women want to look forward to something.

Don’t say, “Let’s hang out next Friday” and don’t give her any specifics. That is the quickest way for her to lose interest. She will think you’re lazy and not a good dater. Keep the momentum going. Date one needs to turn into date two. Date two needs to turn into date three if you like her. Show her that you want to be with her and pursue her.

Japanese matchmaker and Chinese matchmaker affiliates

We often have Asian women who we work with who live overseas, in Japan or Hong Kong. We work with a Japanese matchmaker abroad who sends their Japanese ladies to us to meet great guys. The guys they are seeking are Asian and Caucasian. Our Japanese matchmaker affiliate has screened the women. Our Japanese matchmaker fills us in on their female clients and who they are seeking. Here at Two Asian Matchmakers, we interview the men and match the men for free. In this case, the women overseas are the paying clients. Our Japanese matchmaker affiliate tells us that the ladies looking for financially stable, intelligent men here in the US. If this is you, we’d love to learn more about you to have you meet the women overseas. It’s free to meet them if you are a good candidate and serious about getting married. Know in advance that the women are open to relocating here in the United States. The women speaks good English conversationally. Many of them have lived in the United States, traveled here before, traveled to Canada or other English speaking countries, and like the western lifestyle. They are not new to the western way of life or the people. Keep in mind, we are only seeking men (age range from 35 to 65) who are serious about this type of long distance relationship that can lead to her moving her or you moving there.

If you are interested in applying to meet one or some of these great ladies (no cost to you), please reference CUPID ALERT under “how did you hear about us” when you fill out this profile. There is also another program.: If you’re a man and interested in flying to Hong Kong or Japan to meet the women there, then there is a small fee. We will set up the dates for you, vet the candidates for you so they are a good match, and help you make arrangements on where to stay and where to meet them.

There are outgoing guys in the world and there are no so outgoing guys. Shy guys or more introverted guys make great husbands, fathers, and life partners. We love working with engineers, business owners, and smart guys. Usually these type of men are successful at their careers, they want a family, and now that they’ve achieved a level of success, they are ready to find the one. We are here to help. Let us help. Men, fill this out now.

Hire an Asian Matchmaker.

When you hire an Asian matchmaker, it will change your life.

You will learn something about yourself in the process. It makes sense that if you are looking to date someone Asian, you hire someone who reflects the demographics you are seeking. That’s not to say someone not Asian can’t help you, but chances are if you hire an Asian matchmaker, she has more Asian connections than someone not part of the community.

 

How does it feel to work with an Asian matchmaker? What should you expect when you hire an Asian matchmaker to help you find love? If you’re looking to date someone Asian, you need to find someone who has pull in the community, someone who has the connections to meet the man or woman you are hoping to meet.  Asian matchmaker May know the people in LA, surrounding counties, and also have affiliates in Asia.  Whether you are looking to date someone local, out of state, in Hong Kong, Japan, or Indonesia, for example, we have the women for you to meet.  The internet has made the world smaller.  There are many women abroad who are open to relocating.  No, they are not looking for a green card.  They have a lot to offer the right man.  This is not mail order bride or anything like that.  The women overseas has their own thing going on.  They are also open if you want to relocate there.  When you hire an Asian matchmaker, she will interview you and find out what your needs are and handpick women who are the best matches for you.  There is no scrolling through profiles online, wondering if they are scamming you, or wondering if they are really single.  When you work through May, her team and her are working with another matchmaker across the continent for you, connecting you with real single women.

Dating Expert Says You Are Not Ready To Date If….

Dating Expert Do’s.

Dating Expert May Hui says you should take some time off for yourself before you start getting online right away. The singles will always be online, there is no hurry. “As a dating expert, I say don’t get back on the horse too soon,” says dating expert May, “You need to reflect on what you’ve learn from your previous relationship and focus on some things you need for the next one. Take a moment to self-assess.”

Dating expert May Hui says you are not ready to date if you have too much going on. If you are newly single, do you have drama with your ex? How do you deal with that? What other things do you have going on that is preventing you from dating? You that you should take some time off for yourself, sort yourself out, before getting back out there. If you don’t have someone to watch the kids or have a plan when it comes to dating again, then you are not ready. If you and your ex are still screaming at each other on the phone, then you are not ready to date yet. If your kids are still mourning the breakup between you and your ex, then it’s time to have a conversation with them and give it some time before jumping into the dating scene. You can also hire a date coach to get through some of these issues. A dating coach is invaluable with sound advice for you to take the next step in finding the one. You can search for date coach or dating expert online and read about them to find a good one for you. But be careful, not every dating coach knows what they are talking about so see if their philosophy is in line with yours.

“How Do I Get a Date?”

If you are shy, don’t have that many social friends, or don’t get out much, you might be asking yourself, “How Do I Get a Date?” Well, the good news is that if you are asking it, then we have some suggestions. First and foremost, you have to put yourself out there. Online dating is a great place to go to solve your “How Do I Get a Date” problem. Getting out there to networking function or Meetup.com groups where you have things in common with people are great ways to start. You can even have someone put together a professional online dating profile for you if you need help with that. Commit to going to at least one new activity group, a date with a new romantic interest, or networking function a week. This way, you know that once a week, you have a goal of getting out of your comfort zone. Check out our video on what we suggest you do if you don’t have the funds to hire a matchmaker. There are many things you can do to increase your odds of getting out there and finding the one. It won’t be easy but once you force yourself to mingle, drive there, and participate, you’ll actually realize it’s kind of fun. I know there are many times I dread going somewhere but once I’m out, I have a good time.

 

How can you get dates if you don’t hire a matchmaker? What are some good practices and things to do instead of online dating? Your circle of friends might be a good start. How do you become a likeable person? How does your attitude affect your love life? What makes your friends want to introduce you? After you really try, then you will solve your own problem of “How Do I Get a Date?”

Dating Tips For Men

We are talking to guys in this blog. Here are some dating tips for men and what you can do to give a better first impression on dates. This is what men can do better and here are women’s turnoffs.

 

  1. When men don’t let women speak on a date when she’s telling a story.  That’s annoying. She wants to share a story and he interrupts or tries to finish the story for her. When he is paraphrasing what she is saying so it’s like he’s bonding but the bonding is not happening.
  2. We don’t want to smell you and your cologne after you leave the room. It’s actually fine to not wear any cologne if you aren’t sure if it’s too much. Too much cologne is no good.
  3. If you have a favorite first date shirt and it’s over a year old, you need to get a new shirt. We had a woman complain that her date’s clothes smelled like he’s worn them before…that the shirt smelled a little musty when she got up close to him. Or, it seemed like he wore too much gel in his hair and she can smell it a mile away. It seemed like she really liked him but that one thing really bugged her about him.

We have some stories to share with you in our video about some turnoffs that women brought to our attention and what we’ve noticed that men can do better. Of course, these are all some examples of real date feedback, but it doesn’t mean every woman feels that way. We are just trying to set up the men to be successful on a date, not nit pick that they can’t wear cologne or wear a certain shirt. Check out the video and see if any of this sounds familiar to you, if you’re doing something that women find it’s a turn off.