As an Asian matchmaker in Los Angeles, we sure have a ton of Asian dating advice to give. You can never be armed with too much info to navigate through the Asian dating world. We received some questions on our site so we wanted to address them here. You can ask any Asian dating question and we love to answer them on our blog.
Asian Dating Advice #1: “Unfortunately, I am not very “think-outside-the-box” when it comes to Asian dating and taking out Asian women. I’m Caucasian and I must admit I’m kind of a lazy dater. I like the usual boring chain restaurants but know that I shouldn’t just be taking my dates to these types of places. Is it tacky to take a date to a chain restaurant?”
Advice: Fortunately, in Los Angeles, you have a lot of restaurants to choose from to make you good at Asian dating. As you are Asian dating or chatting with friends, you can ask them where they think is a good first date place and keep a list. Always, your favorite hole-in-the-wall restaurant or your cozy neighborhood place is a better idea than a chain restaurant. When you are not busy Asian dating and your friends and you are going out to eat, you might as well start checking out restaurants to get first date ideas!! Also, if you do coffee dates, that’s okay, but just try to pick a cozy mom and pop coffee shop and not the chain ones where there is high traffic. You will be great at Asian dating in no time by having five nice places to take a woman in nearby neighborhoods.
Asian Dating Advice #2: “I have been out on dates with this great Asian woman recently but it seemed like she was not interested in me or the conversation is awkward. How do I get this cute Asian woman to talk more or at least be more engaged in our conversation?”
The success to Asian dating is getting to know her. Women love it when we get asked questions. It shows interest! Men sometimes don’t realize this is the key to successful Asian dating. You should ask her open-ended questions and hopefully, she’ll reciprocate. If you feel like you’re doing most of the talking, just say, “Gosh, I feel like I’ve been doing so much talking. I want to get to know you more. Tell me about you.” Hopefully, the woman will take the hint. For women and men, don’t lie or exaggerate the truth. It will come back to haunt you later! Happy Asian dating!!
Asian Dating Advice #3: Asian dating dilemma: Where and when’s the best place to meet my future Asian partner?
To be successful at Asian dating, you don’t just seek a partner on the weekends. Successful Asian dating is not just reserved for Friday and Saturday nights from 9-11p.m. Any time and any place is a good time to meet someone new. You can’t be on your phone checking emails or your Facebook account while you are in line at a grocery store or waiting at the DMV. You don’t want to miss out on human contact when you have a chance to chat someone up. For you to be successful at Asian dating, you need to seize all opportunities of meeting someone new. Happy Asian dating!!